frozengirl Posted November 6, 2014 Posted November 6, 2014 So how many Boyfriends, Girlfriends, Fiances, Wives, have you had? Whether they'd been relationships lasting 1 hour, 1 day, 1 week, 1 month, a few months, 1 year or a few years. Me since dating in high school up until now I've had around 15-20 Boyfriends only 3 of those being serious relationships, 1 lasting 11 months, 1 was 1 year, and the other was 3 years. How about you?
kolleamm Posted November 6, 2014 Posted November 6, 2014 Me since dating in high school up until now I've had around 15-20 Boyfriends How about you? Dear God.... 6
ScreaminEagle Posted November 6, 2014 Posted November 6, 2014 I can only confirm that I have never had any boyfriends, the other is a subjective question =)
almond Posted November 6, 2014 Posted November 6, 2014 Three, although, one was back at the beginning of high school and I didn't even kiss him. We went back to being buddies and it was much better I've been with my current partner for almost six years now. What is a 1 hour relationship OP?? 1
Els Posted November 6, 2014 Posted November 6, 2014 I'm in my mid-late 20s, and this R is my third. The other two lasted about 10 months and 1.5 years respectively (I guess, I don't really remember the exact details). This one is currently almost 6 years old (I think? Dang my godawful memory...) 20 boyfriends seems like a lot to me! 2
Author frozengirl Posted November 6, 2014 Author Posted November 6, 2014 Haha well a lot of my high school Boyfriends lasted 1 week long so thats why I had a lot hahaha. And I've had friends tell me, they had Boyfriends for like lunch period then they broke up after lunch time ended hahaha.
kolleamm Posted November 6, 2014 Posted November 6, 2014 Haha well a lot of my high school Boyfriends lasted 1 week long so thats why I had a lot hahaha. And I've had friends tell me, they had Boyfriends for like lunch period then they broke up after lunch time ended hahaha. Hmm kinda like a test drive?
acrosstheuniverse Posted November 6, 2014 Posted November 6, 2014 A four year relationship 18-22. We were both pretty crazy jealous and after about six months must have had serious horrible arguments every few weeks minimum, but there was a lot of love, a lot of good times, and great experiences and memories together. Ended when we moved in together and split up that same day, living together as exes for six months. There was a lot of anxiety in that relationship, I thought that's how they were all supposed to be. We're not exactly 'friends' per se, but we're friendly, chat about bands we are both into on facebook once in a blue moon. I wish him all the best. A six month fling with a professor twenty years my senior, aged 22. He was kinky as hell and introduced me to the BDSM scene and helped me uncover my submissive side in a big, big way. Still never met anyone as sexually sick in the head as him and I bloody loved it, I never met anyone else I could be as honest with about my own thoughts and fantasies before or since or who I felt would accept that side of me so unconditionally. We are still friends and meet up now and then (couple times a year perhaps). A two year relationship aged 22-24. My Mom died a month after we got together under pretty horrible circumstances which wasn't the best start, so I guess we never really were a 'regular' new relationship, although we'd been friends for a year and a half before we got together. After two years living together he left me outta the blue one night. I never found out why, but I lost the apartment because I couldn't afford it. His family turned their back on me and I was only just starting to recover from losing my Mom. Him walking out on me without warning was pretty much the hardest thing I ever went through. I don't know how I got through it, never felt pain like it before or since. A year later I bumped into him and just had to ask him why he left: he said he just didn't feel loved, that he knew I did love him and it was clear but he just couldn't feel it. I think it was half him being a very 'loner' kinda person who'd never had a relationship before (but banged a hundred women) and ultimately preferred being solitary and sleeping around, and half me not really being in the right place to be a good partner due to the grieving and some additional physical health issues that swallowed my life up at times. I have zero contact with him and never want to again. A four month thing with a guy from uni who had a partner of six years, shortly after the two year relationship ended. I was emotionally broken and just didn't care anymore about doing the right thing when I'd done it all my life and ended up so burnt with losing many people I loved. It ended when it became clear that he wasn't going to leave his partner. I regret acting in that manner now, deeply. But it taught me I'd never go there again. A six month relationship aged 25. Met the guy online. Was all going really well until he dumped me after half a year. He was pretty immature and had never had a girlfriend, either. I think he thought he loved me, but it turned out to be infatuation. Unfortunately I grew to actually love him. But whatever, once it started to slide I didn't fight it, I just let it end and cut contact straight away to start to heal and it worked. It did really hurt me at the time but compared to the guy before him, nothing could really compare with pain. Zero contact but I did text him about six months ago because it was looking likely we were going to have to bump into each other and I wanted to clear the air before it actually happened. I realised it still actually hurt, and did everything I could to avoid him, still haven't actually bumped into him thankfully, although my current boyfriend has had to work with him once or twice, knowing who each other are. Been with my current partner nine months. Can honestly say it's the best relationship I've ever had. We get on so great, we so rarely ever argue, he treats me with so much kindness and respect and never snaps, no arguments where he ends up punching a hole through the wall like with one of my exes. We can spend days on end together and never get sick of each other or on each other's nerves. He does the sweetest things like gets up at 6am when I'm at work on his day off just to make me breakfast (I do the same for him). He always seems to want the best for me and grants me total freedom, he isn't jealous about what I wear like one of my exes, he isn't jealous about anything I do barring cheat because he trusts me so implicitly. He's feet first into the relationship and was so on board with moving to a new city with me for me to find the right job after my MA. He's super talented and ridiculously gorgeous and even just snuggling him skin on skin in bed is like the best thing I've ever felt. I love his family and he adores mine. We both talk about wanting similar things at a similar age in the future and have an awesome little apartment with a baby girl hamster we are besotted with. It scares me sometimes in case it goes wrong like the others, and I end up really hurt again, but strangely once you go through losing people you love enough, you get used to it and stop fearing it quite so much because you know that you can handle it. I just don't want to have to go through it because I only want him.
Emilia Posted November 6, 2014 Posted November 6, 2014 Haha well a lot of my high school Boyfriends lasted 1 week long so thats why I had a lot hahaha. And I've had friends tell me, they had Boyfriends for like lunch period then they broke up after lunch time ended hahaha. How old are you OP? Have you ever had a sexual relationship? I'm not asking details, I'm just wondering what you mean by 'relationship' exactly. 1
Woggle Posted November 6, 2014 Posted November 6, 2014 Two wives, one other long term relationship and a lot of dates.
kjohn Posted November 6, 2014 Posted November 6, 2014 My first "real" relationship began when I was 17 and lasted 3 years. There was a guy I dated for about 3 months during a time that my BF and I were broken up (it was an on-again-off-again thing) but that wasn't really serious….just something to fill the time while I waited for my BF and I to get back together. I'm glad to be off that roller coaster. I have no regrets about that relationship. He was my first true love, but it taught me that breaking up is not something you do when you are mad at somebody or in a fight. Breaking up is a serious thing and I vowed that I would never be in another on/off relationship again. I haven't. My next relationship was my marriage. We were together 16 years total. Met at 20. Married at 22. Divorced at 36. My current relationship has been almost 4 years. My current BF was shocked when we had "that discussion" at the beginning of our relationship and he found out that I had only had 2 partners in the past 20 years. It was a lot different than the other women he had dated.
Michelle ma Belle Posted November 6, 2014 Posted November 6, 2014 Oh my goodness. Well, this just sounds a bit ridiculous to me. First, I'm not sure what constitutes a "relationship" in YOUR world so it's hard to answer this question with any kind of seriousness. Personally, anything lasting a mere few hours or few days sounds more like an encounter than a relationship but that might just be me. If I were to answer your question as is, I would pretty much have to list EVERY boy/man I spent at least 1 hour with! Again, ridiculous.
carhill Posted November 6, 2014 Posted November 6, 2014 How many BF/GF/Fiance/Wives have you had? Sexually, four, including one wife for about ten years. Back when I was a virgin and was waiting for a 'serious committed relationship', there were a couple other ladies I dated for a number of months, never over six, but did call them girlfriends, so perhaps add two or three to that number, so seven. As an example of women I wouldn't count, the two ladies I dated while separated were only for a short period of time, generally under two months, and intimacy wasn't at a level I'd call 'girlfriend intimacy'.
lyndaaxo Posted November 6, 2014 Posted November 6, 2014 I've had a few 'relationships' during my school years that I don't particularly count as relationships now I'm an adult (lasting between a couple of weeks to a couple of months). So I'd say I've had 3 real relationships ranging from 9 months to 2 and a half years.
Targetlock Posted November 6, 2014 Posted November 6, 2014 1 girlfriend that ended it recently , 1 girl i dated twice before it ended and that is about it for me so far :/ my dating life has been awkward so far i think.
WomenWubber Posted November 6, 2014 Posted November 6, 2014 I've never had a girlfriend in the traditional sense, but I've been in 3 relationships I would classify as intimate and long-term. Looking back I can tell why they're doomed to fail, but to this day I'm grateful for having been able to know and bond with these women.
WomenWubber Posted November 6, 2014 Posted November 6, 2014 1 girlfriend that ended it recently , 1 girl i dated twice before it ended and that is about it for me so far :/ my dating life has been awkward so far i think. Sorry about that, man. It's like that at the begining. It gets better.
sillyanswer Posted November 6, 2014 Posted November 6, 2014 So how many Boyfriends, Girlfriends, Fiances, Wives, have you had? Whether they'd been relationships lasting 1 hour, 1 day, 1 week, 1 month, a few months, 1 year or a few years. What's a 1 hour relationship? 1
DrReplyInRhymes Posted November 6, 2014 Posted November 6, 2014 There's been times where the connection was short, and there's been times where it's a long-haul support. Through all of the years, and all of those connections, There's only a handful of women who I remember with affection. My true number, if we decide to add dates... I do not know, but it's not a number to hate. I've had no shortage of that enticing one night stand, however, true relationships...I can count on one hand. I do not consider a relationship lasting less than 12 weeks. To me that is dating, and a relationship is what we seek. After the dating, and in a relationship that's true. Love and commitment is what will shine through. Those are the experiences that I remember and cherish. Those are the women I count, those memories will never perish. Those are the relationships that I consider worthy and true, And unfortunate as it seems, I can count them on one hand with you!
Author frozengirl Posted November 6, 2014 Author Posted November 6, 2014 One of my friends told me back in high school he had a Girlfriend during 1st and 2nd periods and by break time they had broken up haha so thats like an hour relationship. 1
Phoe Posted November 6, 2014 Posted November 6, 2014 I've had 4 boyfriends. shortest length was about 1 month, longest was 10 months.
fortyninethousand322 Posted November 6, 2014 Posted November 6, 2014 So how many Boyfriends, Girlfriends, Fiances, Wives, have you had? Whether they'd been relationships lasting 1 hour, 1 day, 1 week, 1 month, a few months, 1 year or a few years. Me since dating in high school up until now I've had around 15-20 Boyfriends only 3 of those being serious relationships, 1 lasting 11 months, 1 was 1 year, and the other was 3 years. How about you? I'm 26. Never had any formal girlfriend. Been on some dates, but nothing substantial. Still haven't even kissed a girl on the lips before.
sillyanswer Posted November 6, 2014 Posted November 6, 2014 One of my friends told me back in high school he had a Girlfriend during 1st and 2nd periods and by break time they had broken up haha so thats like an hour relationship. Were they even sitting next to each other or did someone have to pass a note between them? 1
Shining One Posted November 7, 2014 Posted November 7, 2014 By the OP's definition, I would say several hundred. I'm guessing my female coworker who huddled against me for warmth during lunch today counts. It was over an hour. A serious answer: 0 BF / 6 GF / 0 Fiances / 0 Wives 2
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