OwMyEyeball Posted November 6, 2014 Posted November 6, 2014 No because he is the only person she treats like that. If he texted her or FB msgd her, she probably wouldn't read it until a week later. With the way she ignores him in person that probably wouldn't matter much. Maybe a Snapchat or Instagram or Tweet? With all this social media to plug into I can see how some might find it difficult to devote much attention to their corporeal relationships. Them meat bags and their flappy lips - getting all chitty chatty. 1
Author kolleamm Posted November 6, 2014 Author Posted November 6, 2014 Dude, this behavior is the same with a lot of women these days. They don't put their phone down long enough for their company to be worth seeking out. I'd rather hang out alone than be with someone who is engrossed with text conversations all night. the downsides of technology
Gloria25 Posted November 6, 2014 Posted November 6, 2014 the downsides of technology It's not technology...Like others pointed out here, you're o'l faithful and she's getting "something" from you (i.e. companionship, bills paid, a roof over her head)...but she doesn't want "you". Don't blame it on the rain, the stars, the moon.... No culpas a la noche, no a la playa...sera que no me amas 1
writergal Posted November 6, 2014 Posted November 6, 2014 the downsides of technology Just send her a text like this or one of these. 2
Author kolleamm Posted November 6, 2014 Author Posted November 6, 2014 Just send her a text like this or one of these. Wow those were really funny! But she would never respond, her response rate is in light years. I'm glad I took astronomy. 1
writergal Posted November 6, 2014 Posted November 6, 2014 Wow those were really funny! But she would never respond, her response rate is in light years. I'm glad I took astronomy. Ha, ha, well hopefully they've inspired you to write your own kiss-off text! I can't believe she treated you like that. Wow. 1
Author kolleamm Posted November 6, 2014 Author Posted November 6, 2014 Ha, ha, well hopefully they've inspired you to write your own kiss-off text! I can't believe she treated you like that. Wow. I know, and they have. I really hope no one else puts up with this kind of behavior.
normal person Posted November 6, 2014 Posted November 6, 2014 If it were me, I just wouldn't say anything to her. No texts, nothing. It might be a wake up call and she'll wonder what she's got to do to hang onto you. Not that I think it'll actually work out with you guys (sorry). If she really wants to be with you, she can show you by putting in a modicum of effort. To get that you have to deny her what she wants/is getting but hasn't earned: your attention.
IronZ Posted November 6, 2014 Posted November 6, 2014 What does she talk to her ex about? Also, I bet she would reply to you faster if your text was about breaking up. Do it that way so she can't trick you with her tears.
Author kolleamm Posted November 6, 2014 Author Posted November 6, 2014 What does she talk to her ex about? Also, I bet she would reply to you faster if your text was about breaking up. Do it that way so she can't trick you with her tears. Oh she replies within 60 seconds when we're arguing, and then heads back to the outer reaches of the solar system when were done.
Author kolleamm Posted November 6, 2014 Author Posted November 6, 2014 If it were me, I just wouldn't say anything to her. No texts, nothing. It might be a wake up call and she'll wonder what she's got to do to hang onto you. Not that I think it'll actually work out with you guys (sorry). If she really wants to be with you, she can show you by putting in a modicum of effort. To get that you have to deny her what she wants/is getting but hasn't earned: your attention. That's what I'm going to try doing, not so that I can make her appreciate me, but so that I can make the breakup more effective. A little less communication/appreciation each day, not that I have any respect left for her I hate her guts honestly.
mightycpa Posted November 6, 2014 Posted November 6, 2014 I have low self esteem and I'm afraid of ending up alone. I nearly fell out of my chair when I read that! Break up with her so that your testicles will descend and feel the cold air for the first time ever. Do it for yourself, not because she treats you like that, but instead, just so you can feel what it is like to watch somebody crying in front of you and you don't give in. Stand your ground, watch her cry and moan and take it all in like a casual observer. But don't give in.. tell her things like "NO" and "too bad" and "I don't care." Then, as soon as she's done throwing her pity party, leave, and go find a place where girls hang out and make a point of meeting one or two. That frightens you, right? Good. Go do it. There is hope for you, but not with this kind of talk: I have low self esteem and I'm afraid of ending up alone.
Author kolleamm Posted November 6, 2014 Author Posted November 6, 2014 Alright everyone so iam taking your advice and have started ignoring her, now she basically keeps sending me all these messages asking me if I'm OKAY and how much she loves me with all these hearts, how do I react?
IronZ Posted November 6, 2014 Posted November 6, 2014 You don't react. This is a poisonous relationship that you were clear you wanted no part of. Break up with her already.
rester Posted November 6, 2014 Posted November 6, 2014 Alright everyone so iam taking your advice and have started ignoring her, now she basically keeps sending me all these messages asking me if I'm OKAY and how much she loves me with all these hearts, how do I react? Who told you to ignore her? Call her up and tell her the relationship isn't working out for you and that you think it's best you both move on. It's only been a few months.
sagetalk Posted November 7, 2014 Posted November 7, 2014 (edited) She is either always texting her friends, her EX included, What do I do? She may be using you to make her ex jealous, and is almost certainly still interested in him and waiting around for him. Contacting the Ex stuff is bad news, cut your loses and run. It sounds like you're miserable anyway so you're not missing much. Edited November 7, 2014 by sagetalk
writergal Posted November 7, 2014 Posted November 7, 2014 She's as stable as a stick of lit dynamite kolleam. Either text her or call her, but let her know that you're as done as a 3 hour Thanksgiving turkey with that "relationship" and that you're going to busy your time now tipping cows and writing novels. Do anything but spend time with her.
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