warnett Posted November 5, 2014 Posted November 5, 2014 Wow how do I start this. I have been seeing this women for 4 or 5 months. Have had some real heavy makeout times but have not had sex. She says she a good girl and kind of promises it down the road. There's been a couple of times that if I had pushed it I may have got there but she was pretty lit and I don't know if it was just the drinking and did not want to take advantage. She was in a bad relationship and may just want to be sure. This women has be totally confused. She says she really loves me and doesn't want to lose me. She text me a lot and calls a lot. Like every day several times. I have spent the night with her several times but on the couch. She will then come in there and sit on the couch next to be for a long time before going to her bed one those times is when I think if I had pushed we may have had sex. The first time she stayed there for a while and let me feel her up and then she got up gave me a strange look and went to bed. I mention this to her and she said since she was drunk she may have thought I was her x and if I had taken advantage of her we would have been over. By the way this is not a young women sees 55 and I'm 60 and yes it still works. All input welcome.
PegNosePete Posted November 5, 2014 Posted November 5, 2014 So you have 3 choices, you can either carry on as you are (not getting your needs met), you can talk to her about it (meaning discuss YOUR needs as well as hers), or you can chuck it in and find someone less broken.
mammasita Posted November 5, 2014 Posted November 5, 2014 Wow, 55 and she's putting you off like that? You've proven you're not going anywhere and you say she loves you....but do you love her? Are you sure she doesn't have some sort of medical issue you're not aware of? I agree with Peg.....3 choices. Keep going, lay it on the line or walk.
sillyanswer Posted November 5, 2014 Posted November 5, 2014 Wow how do I start this. I have been seeing this women for 4 or 5 months. Have had some real heavy makeout times but have not had sex. She says she a good girl and kind of promises it down the road. Having sex wouldn't make her a bad girl. Good girls have sex too! Get specifics on those "kind of promises". How far down the road? What is she waiting for? When you know what these things are then decide whether you're prepared to wait (if it's a time issue) or whether you can deliver what she wants (if it's some sort of relationship status). Then, if it's too much trouble you should end it, or if it isn't then give her what she wants. If she won't talk about specifics then walk away as she's not interested in meeting your needs (or even discussing what her needs are in that area).
Keenly Posted November 5, 2014 Posted November 5, 2014 She makes you sleep on the couch? Jesus Christ dude, what the hell are you doing?
central Posted November 5, 2014 Posted November 5, 2014 Walk away. She's broken. Surely you can do better?
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