scubasteve Posted November 5, 2014 Posted November 5, 2014 She texted me why I have been distant or why I haven't text her has much.
Lani Posted November 5, 2014 Posted November 5, 2014 There could be any number of reasons.. None of them really relevant. Don't dwell. Move on. 1
Author scubasteve Posted November 5, 2014 Author Posted November 5, 2014 I did move on, there is a reason on wjy I'm not texting her has much.
Lani Posted November 5, 2014 Posted November 5, 2014 I did move on, there is a reason on wjy I'm not texting her has much. Then why start a thread about her?
Author scubasteve Posted November 5, 2014 Author Posted November 5, 2014 Then why start a thread about her? Cause I wanted to know what others think that's all.
sid3 Posted November 5, 2014 Posted November 5, 2014 Sounds as though she is missing the attention you had been providing. She sounds a bit clueless. 2
Frank2thepoint Posted November 5, 2014 Posted November 5, 2014 Cause I wanted to know what others think that's all. I'm curious, how did she exactly reject you? Because she is reaching out to you. Could you share your story so we can give a better answer?
JuneJulySeptember Posted November 5, 2014 Posted November 5, 2014 Then why start a thread about her? Because she re-ignitied the possibility. Women will do that sometimes. Mostly inadvertently. But still, stay away yes.
BlueIris Posted November 5, 2014 Posted November 5, 2014 Maybe she thought you were friends and didn't know your only interest was to date her? 2
ASG Posted November 5, 2014 Posted November 5, 2014 Or, even though she did know you were interested, she still misses what she considered a friendship. I have missed guys I rejected dearly when they stopped making the effort to meet up with me or text...
irc333 Posted November 5, 2014 Posted November 5, 2014 Not saying you're like this ASG, but the only time a woman usually misses a guy after she rejected is because they like them around for the attention Or, even though she did know you were interested, she still misses what she considered a friendship. I have missed guys I rejected dearly when they stopped making the effort to meet up with me or text... 1
ASG Posted November 5, 2014 Posted November 5, 2014 Not saying you're like this ASG, but the only time a woman usually misses a guy after she rejected is because they like them around for the attention Not really. I recently rejected a guy who I thought was a friend (yes I was aware that he was probably interested, but was in that kinda limbo of "am I being conceited?" He also had a GF for some of the time we hung out, which made me relax a bit and think it was probably in my head). I haven't reached out to him, because he was an ABSOLUTE ******* when I rejected him. He did not take it well at all, even though he KNEW I was seeing someone else. But I miss him. I miss our talks, I miss our hang outs. I even miss his friends! We had LOTS of fun and I miss that. And I think about him sometimes and it makes me sad. But I obviously will not try to contact him ever again, because he was so horrible to me when I rejected him, it just ruined everything... Women are not just attention seekers. Most of us actually like people. And would like to hang out with the people we like.
d0nnivain Posted November 5, 2014 Posted November 5, 2014 She probably genuinely wants to be your friend & doesn't understand why self-preservation says you need some distance in there so as not to have a front row seat to her next romance when you would rather be a part of it. You're welcome to explain it to her. 1
JuneJulySeptember Posted November 5, 2014 Posted November 5, 2014 She probably genuinely wants to be your friend & doesn't understand why self-preservation says you need some distance in there so as not to have a front row seat to her next romance when you would rather be a part of it. You're welcome to explain it to her. Amen........ 1
WomenWubber Posted November 5, 2014 Posted November 5, 2014 Tell her you have been busy trying to improve your grammar. 1
Teraskas Posted November 5, 2014 Posted November 5, 2014 Lol, it's happened to me as well in the past. At times I was tempted to respond with: NEWSFLASH: *Usually when you reject someone you don't tend to keep communicating with them 24/7*, but honestly couldn't be bothered and moved on the next one.
bubbletea Posted November 5, 2014 Posted November 5, 2014 she still wants the attention...she doesn't want the way you treat her to change even though she rejected you. it's pretty selfish really...
Kav Posted November 6, 2014 Posted November 6, 2014 (edited) Probably she just likes dangling herself in front of you when she's bored. I had a similar thing happen a girl I met and we hit it off then she calls me the next day and says she doesn't wanna date me. I say ok well I'm looking for someone to date so I won't bother you anymore. She says but she still wants to be friends and that I'm interesting to talk to. I say well we just want different things, bye. And hang up She kept calling back but I didn't answer. See, what she wanted was a guy who was interested in her-a toady so to speak. Edited November 6, 2014 by Kav 2
Author scubasteve Posted November 8, 2014 Author Posted November 8, 2014 I'm curious, how did she exactly reject you? Because she is reaching out to you. Could you share your story so we can give a better answer? We were in a long distance romance. She never gotten over her ex, met me. Things went great, parents fought, ex came back. Tells me that she still loves her ex. Doesn't SEE A Future Other Than friends, Rejects Her Ex That She's NOT GonnA Date for a while.
Author scubasteve Posted November 8, 2014 Author Posted November 8, 2014 She hated me that I kept the conversation short. She's like friends talk and text, everytime I texted you it'd like short worded words or you have to go It's like she's pinning this against me when I want her to pursue me.
La Trese Posted December 14, 2014 Posted December 14, 2014 Oh boy...i've seen friends do this to guys they have rejected sadly. And this is why.... A lot of girls reject guys that like them, but they liked the attention they got from him. It boosts their ego. When they reject the guy they still expect him to pursue her as hard as he did. Some guys do that you know...hopelessly pursue girls that reject him. But when the guy moves on when he is rejected...the girl's ego gets hurt. She starts to miss the attention and hence you get texts like "why haven't you been contacting me as much". Ignore it.
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