dyna85 Posted December 31, 2014 Posted December 31, 2014 No contact is the only way in this circumstance. Totally agree w/dravas18 in that he is stringing you along and keeping you on the back burner. Have some self respect and put the phone down, and never text/call him again. You've already made your loving feelings toward him crystal clear and if he truly cared, he'd return to you, without you having to prompt him. Do you want someone to be with you out of their own free will or do you want someone who comes back because you force them to do so? Not that the second option would ever happen anyway, because as is playing out in this current situation, he is merely giving you breadcrumbs, and you're devouring that ish. Screw that, you deserve a freaking main platter. Seriously. This is so disheartening that you are allowing your emotions to get the better of you. Back away from this guy immediately. He doesn't deserve your love and care at this point. Someone who truly cared about you wouldn't string you along and wouldn't play games. You're his option yet he knows he's a priority of yours. Does that sound acceptable to you? Deep down, you know you deserve more than this. You have VALUE. Don't mistake the despair and desperation you're experiencing for low self-worth. You just need distance to see things more clearly, to recognize that self-worth for what it is. No contact is the only way. It will hurt like a B for a while, but just keep it moving and the skies will part. Trust me on this. You have already demonstrated you're a loving, considerate person, by giving love so freely. However, when it's unappreciated and making you think poorly of yourself, that's when you know a change is in order. You make the choice.
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