HeartshapedBrain Posted November 4, 2014 Posted November 4, 2014 recently I made a post about me and my bf. not sure he does like me, or if he does, it's in a different way than me so that makes us incompatible. but anyway... lately I've been feeling like the 'grass is greener'. I like him a lot, I usually have great times with him BUT I feel like a piece is missing? like there's something that should be in our relationship but I can't see it? he's handsome, he's funny, intelligent, he says he loves me, and does his best to see me when he can, but I still feel like maybe there's something better outside?? sometimes the thought of cheating crosses my mind. it's easy actually, I could've done it already numerous times if I wanted. but I never did because I don't want to hurt him. the thought of doing something that is 'against the rules' makes me want to do it tho, but like everything in my life, I'm a cautious guy so I just let it go, exactly cause I know it's wrong, and especially cause it would hurt him a lot. I do have desire to be with other guys tho... shall I talk to him about it? but how could I without breaking his heart or making him think that I don't like him enough to be my bf? he talks about the future and all, he says I'm the one for him, and things like that... yet I'm not sure I feel the same way? :\ to make it clear, I like him a lot!! don't wanna break up, don't wanna go on a break. but are relationships meant to be like this? like, something's missing? like I'm incomplete? perhaps it's a problem of mine which I should overcome before tryin' to date? help please
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