Author HGirl Posted November 4, 2014 Author Posted November 4, 2014 What you don't seem to get is that I don't care if you are trying to rebuild a romantic relationship or a friendly relationship, the gist of it is still the same. You are still trying to manipulate and control a process that shouldn't be manipulated and controlled. And you huffing and puffing and pouting and whining and insulting me doesn't change that. Well, I'm not actually. And I'm not doing any of those things - if you don't care, why are you bother posting? It feels like you came here to start a fight for whatever reason, as you have offered nothing other than your negative misconceptions and misguided opinions. The tone of your posts have been rather aggressive and antagonistic in my opinion, without actually ever addressing the purpose of my original post. Honestly, why waste energy? If you saw my post asking for advice and thought I was wrong, why bother telling me, if that isn't what I had asked for? Maybe you should start a thread called "Why do I feel the need to antagonise random people on the internet..?"
Author HGirl Posted November 4, 2014 Author Posted November 4, 2014 Good luck to you. Thank you - I don't mean to sound rude. But I wanted to be honest about problems in our relationship as we wouldn't have broken up if everything had been perfect. And I often feel that when I post here, people tend to assume the worst instead of taking my post at face value, so I get fed up having to re-explain and justify my post.
jackinthebox1 Posted November 4, 2014 Posted November 4, 2014 if you want to go for it then go for it. People on here have been hurt so their guard is up completely against reconciliation and thats because it can backfire and hurt a great deal. If you are comfortable with that then i would text him when hes back in town, ask how are things. if he replies then say hey im in town, lets grab a coffee and catch up. The don't talk about the relationship, have fun, remain calm and see where it goes. If it hurts you it hurts you, we are all ultimately going to be dead one day so if u want to take the chance then do it. 1
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