Heartache79 Posted November 4, 2014 Posted November 4, 2014 It's been two weeks since our break up of our 1 1/2 relationship. Like most folks here...I thought she was my true soulmate. Love her and her two kids dearly. I have two kids roughly the same age and we all got along so great. She left me for an ex or more like GIGS is what it is. Was feeling ok last night. Had to work very early for a little while this morning. So when I get off I decided to take a short nap and BAM!! Dreams of her just doing some of the causal things she always did. Feel like a ton of bricks has hit me today. I've felt like crap all day. Sorry for the rant. We use to text nonstop all day. Just wanted to blow some steam off. Praying it gets easier. Lost much more than just her. Feel like I lost my whole family
preraph Posted November 4, 2014 Posted November 4, 2014 Here's a tip that will help. Before you go to sleep, deliberately give yourself a couple of minutes to go over the situation in your head. You can ask yourself questions like, If I'd done this differently, would it have changed the outcome? Was I too pushy? Etc. You can ask yourself the question, Given the circumstances now, what is the best realistic outcome and What is the worst possible outcome. Is there anything I can do that would achieve the best outcome? If the worst possible outcome happens, will it really matter in five years' time? Does it really change who I am as a person? So now you've given a lot of conscious problem-solving thought to the issue and now that's all the time it gets. You've dealt with it consciously so your subconscious won't have as much unresolved work to do while you sleep.
Jet Lag Posted November 5, 2014 Posted November 5, 2014 Praying it gets easier. Lost much more than just her. Feel like I lost my whole family I know exactly how you feel. I had my exes kids here Monday night and I lay in bed in the morning hearing them, just thinking, "You ruined my family. You took my family away!" I love those boys...and I love him.
Targetlock Posted November 5, 2014 Posted November 5, 2014 It's been two weeks since our break up of our 1 1/2 relationship. Like most folks here...I thought she was my true soulmate. Love her and her two kids dearly. I have two kids roughly the same age and we all got along so great. She left me for an ex or more like GIGS is what it is. Was feeling ok last night. Had to work very early for a little while this morning. So when I get off I decided to take a short nap and BAM!! Dreams of her just doing some of the causal things she always did. Feel like a ton of bricks has hit me today. I've felt like crap all day. Sorry for the rant. We use to text nonstop all day. Just wanted to blow some steam off. Praying it gets easier. Lost much more than just her. Feel like I lost my whole family know exactly how you feel, was pretty rough for the first month. but times heals all wounds and each day you have no contact will help you get past this.
Author Heartache79 Posted November 6, 2014 Author Posted November 6, 2014 Yes everybody is right...going to get better. Everyday is getting much easier. Last night and today I'm feeling pretty darn good. Even today as I was in town waiting to get my kids off the bus she drove by. I'm like "wth why??" She knew good and damn well I was going to be there. Her and her daughter waving and smiling all big. But you know what?? Really doesn't bother me. Shows me how crazy she is and still hung up on me. She could have easily took a different street and avoided me.
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