user707 Posted November 4, 2014 Posted November 4, 2014 My guy and I got into a huge fight this past weekend. I 100% admit I went typical girl crazy and called him some bad messed up things. He blocked me on all social media and ignores my texts. He told my BFF he was "never interested in me that way" and "just wants to move on". He denied texting me all day everyday sending me cute messages, videos etc. Yesterday he unblocked me as well as deleted pics of girls he thought were "hot" as a "woman crush" on instagram. I never said it bothered me but he did it anyway. He told my BFF he unblocked me and that he "still wasn't ready to add me" and "maybe in a year we can laugh about this". told my BFF who he didn't delete until she made him, that he wants nothing to do with me. He said he never had feelings for me and denied sending me cute texts that he "felt bad for me" and "it's rude not to reply she's always texting me first". It's totally BULL. He finally opened up in a text about sharing his feelings before the fight so I'm guessing He's just mad right? I don't get it. He said he needs to cool down. Still not talking to me but I am assuming because he deleted this one girls pic he is trying to make a truce with me. Originally, he told me he was upset I liked a photo of the girls but then told my friend the real reason he was upset is because of what I said. Since I know he is mad and lying to my friend about what has happened in our relationship, Im not sure if he knows he's going to come around or not. He keeps saying "i don't want to hurt her I want to move on" and he "just wants to calm down". We never had ANY issues at ALL until this fight and really get along great. Honest to Got. I am assuming he is hurt by what I said. I apologized via text and even sent a letter (which he prob didn't get yet). Any advice? Im so confused. We've never fought like this and he told me "his first instinct is to run away" but he's still not talking to me...
jackinthebox1 Posted November 4, 2014 Posted November 4, 2014 Dont contact him for a week and i 100% guarantee that he will be back.
d0nnivain Posted November 4, 2014 Posted November 4, 2014 You do need to let him be. He needs space to calm down. You left the door open. You apologized & he knows where to find you. Some people don't like drama.
Author user707 Posted November 4, 2014 Author Posted November 4, 2014 Dont contact him for a week and i 100% guarantee that he will be back. Thank you for not being negative and telling me "F him" etc etc. I was thinking this is probably him being mad/hurt. Thanks for responding!! I will keep you posted!
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