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met this girl 2 weeks ago and stayed at hers... we kissed and cuddled all night and this is a recent text conversation

 

"i heard you last night you looked after .... like a gentleman"

"i heard you like gentleman"

"oh!? where did you hear the from!?"

"its the second time you've called me a gentleman since i was with you in your pyjamas "

"it appears to be very true though"

"it appears? im sure you know what you like! i know what i like"

"what do you like? x"

"you obviously x"

"its not obvious at all! x"

"its obvious to me "

"you didn't talk to me the other night though x"

"i was nervous to talk to you OBVIOUSLY xx"

"NOT OBVIOUSLY! why nervous! you've seen me in my PJs! x"

"doesn't change the fact its hard tot talk to someone when your attracted to them does it! x"

"yes!!! bed face isnt attractive! x"

"oh it is x"

"hmmmmm... you need to go to specsavers x

"ive already been and i know what im seeing x

"that's very sweet. thank you x"

"anytime of course x

" x"

"so i will be seeing you soon then x"

 

there are wink emoticons from me in there and standard smiles ones from her

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met this girl 2 weeks ago and stayed at hers... we kissed and cuddled all night and this is a recent text conversation

 

"i heard you last night you looked after .... like a gentleman"

"i heard you like gentleman"

"oh!? where did you hear the from!?"

"its the second time you've called me a gentleman since i was with you in your pyjamas "

"it appears to be very true though"

"it appears? im sure you know what you like! i know what i like"

"what do you like? x"

"you obviously x"

"its not obvious at all! x"

"its obvious to me "

"you didn't talk to me the other night though x"

"i was nervous to talk to you OBVIOUSLY xx"

"NOT OBVIOUSLY! why nervous! you've seen me in my PJs! x"

"doesn't change the fact its hard tot talk to someone when your attracted to them does it! x"

"yes!!! bed face isnt attractive! x"

"oh it is x"

"hmmmmm... you need to go to specsavers x

"ive already been and i know what im seeing x

"that's very sweet. thank you x"

"anytime of course x

" x"

"so i will be seeing you soon then x"

 

there are wink emoticons from me in there and standard smiles ones from her

 

What? Stop texting! Have a conversation face to face. Then decide where to go.

 

And, what about this text conversation says you should back off? She told you you were a gentleman, you've been in bed with her and she asks if she'll be seeing you soon.

 

And, if you're asking if you should back off because this conversation was immature . . . yeah, probably. But, it sounds to me like you were in bed with her and didn't make a move on her and she's wondering why. That being said, she wanted to sleep with you pretty fast . . .

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i asked if i will be seeing you soon then.

 

also prior to this.. i offered her out to an event and she said she legit couldn't and will get back to me when she knows her diary better. she didn't text me all week then randomly text me and we had this convo.

 

also didnt sleep with her btw. i dont think she is like that

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i asked if i will be seeing you soon then.

 

also prior to this.. i offered her out to an event and she said she legit couldn't and will get back to me when she knows her diary better. she didn't text me all week then randomly text me and we had this convo.

 

also didnt sleep with her btw. i dont think she is like that

 

She slept in the bed with you Period. Also, she's not getting back to you with a date and time. The ball was in her court to respond. Go out with someone else.

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The convo just sounds immature, thats all.

Dont think you should back off, if you want to have something with her.

Cool down on all the mush

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she said she legit couldn't and will get back to me when she knows her diary better.

 

Read: If the others she is in pursuit of, let her down i.e. you are on the back burner MATEY.

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