whatamidoinghere Posted March 14, 2005 Posted March 14, 2005 Right now I am keeping busy, and 3pm is coming quickly.. feeling good right now. Am worried about 3pm because that is when I can reach him. Tell me everyone all the reasons NOT TO CALL to find out why he was a no-show, no-call last nite. Other than appearing that I will care if I call. Yes, I am being silly and need a kick in the pants from everyone!
kkat Posted March 14, 2005 Posted March 14, 2005 If it would be particularly helpful, you could jump in your car, drive to my house, and spend your time physically restraining me from calling! This way you could avoid your own call! I logged into LS today because I am having the same problem. I did call but luckily got voicemail and on his system when his phone is off will not show that I called, but of course, I know I broke down and called and as a result, feel so much loathing towards myself. So...how's that for a reason? If you call, you will feel like crap afterwards. But instead of focusing on that, how about how you will feel if you DON'T call? Would that help? If you don't call, you will feel: Self-esteem and self-worth In control of your actions and behaviors Proud of yourself for being strong Confident that if you can do this you can do most anything Does any of that resonate at all?
Author whatamidoinghere Posted March 14, 2005 Author Posted March 14, 2005 Oh, its resonates, I just wanted to hear it from someone else, so THANK YOU kkat. Which big city are you in? Or are you in the northeast if you just want to keep it at that?? Don't beat yourself up, at least he wont know and you got it out of your system. Did that help?
goldy Posted March 14, 2005 Posted March 14, 2005 why are we all so stupid we will put up with a guy who doesnt bother calling US?
SixthSt.Girl Posted March 15, 2005 Posted March 15, 2005 Are you sure that he was actually able to call? I mean, are you sure he's not dead at his home or something? I'm not trying to joke, I'm being serious. Is there anyone, a common friend, that can casually check up on him to see what's going on? I know you don't want him to think you're this mad, but what if he has a legit reason?
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