Jason808 Posted November 4, 2014 Posted November 4, 2014 A girl I'm currently dating is so sweet when I'm around her. We cuddle, kiss, make out, hold hands and even do other things. I have no problem admitting that I like her, I told her straight up but she never told me. She jokes around telling me sweet things like I'm special because I'm the first guy that got a third date, but still never really said she liked me. For example this happened yesterday: Her: I think my mom likes you. Me: Why do you think that? Her: She keeps talking about you haha. Me: Oh that's great, but it's more important to me that you like me haha. Her: hahaha *blowkiss emoji* Her body language tells me she does, but since she never really told me I'm still sort of scared I'll get rejected if I ask her to be my girlfriend. I have to say, she never had a serious relationship before and she was more of a party girl so it could be possible that she is just not interested in a relationship?
Assasda Posted November 4, 2014 Posted November 4, 2014 I'm gonna go on a limb and say you guys have known each other for less than 2 months. So she doesnt know if she likes you yet. You seem needy for that affection. If you keep it up, she's gonna realize how sad it is and move on
Author Jason808 Posted November 4, 2014 Author Posted November 4, 2014 I'm gonna go on a limb and say you guys have known each other for less than 2 months. So she doesnt know if she likes you yet. You seem needy for that affection. If you keep it up, she's gonna realize how sad it is and move on We were classmates in high school and recently we started dating, it was awkward at first but now we both loosened up. I'm not needy for attention and she is neither, I just don't mind holding back that I adore her and neither does she (when we are together). I've had a relationship for a long time and my ex broke up with me in March, since then I've just had some insecurities wich I'm working on.. But all I want to know is if it is to early to ask her to be my girlfriend, I don't want to scare her off.
Assasda Posted November 4, 2014 Posted November 4, 2014 We were classmates in high school and recently we started dating, it was awkward at first but now we both loosened up. I'm not needy for attention and she is neither, I just don't mind holding back that I adore her and neither does she (when we are together). I've had a relationship for a long time and my ex broke up with me in March, since then I've just had some insecurities wich I'm working on.. But all I want to know is if it is to early to ask her to be my girlfriend, I don't want to scare her off. I take it that you read none of my post.
Thegreatestthing Posted November 4, 2014 Posted November 4, 2014 All that you know is that her mum likes you ,just tell her you want to date her properly and if she says no you won't die,the earth won't rotate nothing catastrophic will happen.
mariekatie Posted November 4, 2014 Posted November 4, 2014 Maybe you should just tell her you like her. Some girls prefer it to be the guys who say it first. Her mom likes you, so it means she had told her mom about you. If it fails, don't just give up. Sometimes you just gonna take a risk in love. You never know till you try.
Redhead14 Posted November 4, 2014 Posted November 4, 2014 A girl I'm currently dating is so sweet when I'm around her. We cuddle, kiss, make out, hold hands and even do other things. I have no problem admitting that I like her, I told her straight up but she never told me. She jokes around telling me sweet things like I'm special because I'm the first guy that got a third date, but still never really said she liked me. For example this happened yesterday: Her: I think my mom likes you. Me: Why do you think that? Her: She keeps talking about you haha. Me: Oh that's great, but it's more important to me that you like me haha. Her: hahaha *blowkiss emoji* Her body language tells me she does, but since she never really told me I'm still sort of scared I'll get rejected if I ask her to be my girlfriend. I have to say, she never had a serious relationship before and she was more of a party girl so it could be possible that she is just not interested in a relationship? Have a conversation with her about how you feel about relationships and what you are hoping for in your life. You don't have to say whether it's her you want the relationship with yet. Just a general conversation. Let her express her views and what her hopes are and then go from there. You will get a sense of "where" she is. If you feel the time is right, ask her to be exclusive with you. Just say, I don't want to date anyone else and I hope you won't either. If she's not ready for that, don't view it as a rejection. She doesn't know you well enough to reject you, per se, she's just rejecting that arrangement. If she says, it's moving too fast, slow things down. If she simply isn't interested in that with you, I hope she will be honest.
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