frozengirl Posted November 4, 2014 Posted November 4, 2014 A lot of TV shows and celebrities are Virgins these days but yet people are still talking down on them for wanting to wait it out. Me I am a Virgin and I am remaining one until marriage and thats my own choice not based on religion. But there have been a lot of Virgin based TV shows popping up "Jane the Virgin", "Virgin Territory", "Virgin Diaries", among others. What do you think about this Virgin craze? 1
Noproblem Posted November 4, 2014 Posted November 4, 2014 Jane the virgin is great show, I love it! It is kind of sad that people trash in the east if you are not virgin and trash you in the west if you are I think at the end of the day; it is just a choice, it should not define who you are!
Author frozengirl Posted November 4, 2014 Author Posted November 4, 2014 I wish there were dating sites for Virgins but nowadays people just lie ha.
Toddbt12y1 Posted November 4, 2014 Posted November 4, 2014 Sad that it has come to the point that virginity is so I'll looked upon. Like it is some....disease. I say kudos to you for keeping your virginity. Even if you lost it kudos. There just is no way to please people. If being a virgin makes someone happy - so be it. If losing it makes them happy - so be it.
Author frozengirl Posted November 4, 2014 Author Posted November 4, 2014 Yeah people just pick at anything they can and bring people down when people should just be accepted for who they are and everything about them etc.
Enema Posted November 4, 2014 Posted November 4, 2014 I don't think there's a virgin "craze". You are just seeing what you want to see to try and console yourself that you're not alone in your choice. It's like if I really want to buy a new Buell, I'll start seeing them everywhere. 2
SawtoothMars Posted November 4, 2014 Posted November 4, 2014 A lot of TV shows and celebrities are Virgins these days but yet people are still talking down on them for wanting to wait it out. Me I am a Virgin and I am remaining one until marriage and thats my own choice not based on religion. But there have been a lot of Virgin based TV shows popping up "Jane the Virgin", "Virgin Territory", "Virgin Diaries", among others. What do you think about this Virgin craze? This is a tough one. Everyone handles this a bit different... and I honestly think most people would be MUCH healthier mentally if they waited until 20 for sex. When I was younger this really seemed like the ideal to me. I married the first woman I ever slept with... we were both virgins. Dated for 2 years then married for 10. Caught her cheating on me in the 10th year.... which is my lesson to you! Do not get caught up believing that being a virgin means something it doesn't.
Author frozengirl Posted November 4, 2014 Author Posted November 4, 2014 This is a tough one. Everyone handles this a bit different... and I honestly think most people would be MUCH healthier mentally if they waited until 20 for sex. When I was younger this really seemed like the ideal to me. I married the first woman I ever slept with... we were both virgins. Dated for 2 years then married for 10. Caught her cheating on me in the 10th year.... which is my lesson to you! Do not get caught up believing that being a virgin means something it doesn't. Well why did she cheat on you?
SawtoothMars Posted November 4, 2014 Posted November 4, 2014 Well why did she cheat on you? I have no idea. Curiosity maybe? What would make you want to cheat?
Author frozengirl Posted November 4, 2014 Author Posted November 4, 2014 I have no idea. Curiosity maybe? What would make you want to cheat? People cheat for a number of reasons; Sex wasn't good. They're bored. They get lonely because their current partner never has the time for them so they find someone that will make the time. And no I am not a cheater but I do watch the TV show Cheaters. And this topic isn't about cheating it's about Virgins, and I don't care if I am the only Virgin or put with a ton of them, I know what I am and I am proud of it.
SawtoothMars Posted November 4, 2014 Posted November 4, 2014 People cheat for a number of reasons; Sex wasn't good. They're bored. They get lonely because their current partner never has the time for them so they find someone that will make the time. And no I am not a cheater but I do watch the TV show Cheaters. And this topic isn't about cheating it's about Virgins, and I don't care if I am the only Virgin or put with a ton of them, I know what I am and I am proud of it. You should be proud of it. I'm not trying to tear you down. I think it's an awesome choice... and the same choice I made. I just don't want you to do it for the wrong reasons. We didn't have kids and both just worked really hard on our careers and took tons of fantastic vacations. The people at her work liked to drink and party and she got into that... and I got into it with her. Eventually she made the choice to go out and do that stuff behind my back. I would travel for overnight about 3 to 4 days a month. The sex was really good all the way up to the end. The guy she was messing around with was about 20 years older and a single playboy type. Very different from me... so I think maybe she just wanted something different. One BIG advantage of two virgins marrying is the ability to freely experiment with sex without baggage or insecurity.
Assasda Posted November 4, 2014 Posted November 4, 2014 One BIG advantage of two virgins marrying is the ability to freely experiment with sex without baggage or insecurity. hahahahahahahahaha
chillsup123 Posted November 5, 2014 Posted November 5, 2014 Honestly... being a virgin is not a big deal. I regret losing mine to some random chick I met. If you're nervous about telling somebody tell them you're very cautious about your health. In this society sex is like a daily chore. You don't know how many people I know caught something from sex in their teens. From their experience I realized myself that sex is a scary thing and you should always be cautious of who you put your willy in or vise versa. Plus sex isn't hard and when the time comes you'll know what to do even without experience lol.
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