princessjulieanne Posted March 14, 2005 Posted March 14, 2005 I have been seeing a wonderful man for the past two and 1/2 months and all has been going very well. On Friday he was driving his daughter to the airport in Toronto, Ontario which is about a 5 hour drive from our area. We had made arrangements for him to come to my house on Saturday night after he got home. On Friday night when I knew he was on the road I received an email saying "cant make it have other plans" and his name. He has always signed his emails hugs and kisses so I sensed somehow he didn't write the email. Well on Saturday morning when he was still here an email was sent supposedly from him not to contact him that he wasn't interested and never would be. I didn't read it until he left and I called him and told him about the emails. I do not know if it is a hacker or as I suspect his ex wife who has at other times tried to interfere. He is a very kind man and would not possibly see that his ex would do something like this. Well today we were to see each other and he has called and said he doesn't think we should see each other for awhile that all this email stuff is freaking him out and he needs to figure out whats going on. He cannot get back into his account by the way it keeps saying he is putting in the wrong password. I asked if he thought it was his ex and he said he didn't know and I don't think he would be a very good liar. How should I handle this? Should I just let it go and hope he comes back or should I try and see him and reason with him. Also is there any way of finding out who did this? Until now we have had a totally happy relationship.
LucreziaBorgia Posted March 14, 2005 Posted March 14, 2005 he has called and said he doesn't think we should see each other for awhile That's all you need to concern yourself with. No matter what his reasons are, he has chosen not to see you for a while. There's no use in trying to figure out why, because anyone who would use something like "weird email" as an excuse to break things off with someone probably isn't going to be forthcoming with the truth. He's hiding his true motivations for breaking things off with you. Do you really buy the story that someone in an otherwise happy relationship would break up with someone just because of "strange email freaking them out"? Should I just let it go Yes. is there any way of finding out who did this? Would it matter? It won't change the fact that he broke things off with you. My advice? Just walk away. Something is wrong with this picture.
Author princessjulieanne Posted March 14, 2005 Author Posted March 14, 2005 You are absolutely right and I did not think of it that way. I guess I should be glad that this has happened early on before I got hurt anymore than I already have. Thing is even if he did come back I would not be able to trust or allow myself to love him completely ever again.
theone44 Posted March 14, 2005 Posted March 14, 2005 Originally posted by princessjulieanne I have been seeing a wonderful man for the past two and 1/2 months and all has been going very well. On Friday he was driving his daughter to the airport in Toronto, Ontario which is about a 5 hour drive from our area. We had made arrangements for him to come to my house on Saturday night after he got home. On Friday night when I knew he was on the road I received an email saying "cant make it have other plans" and his name. He has always signed his emails hugs and kisses so I sensed somehow he didn't write the email. Well on Saturday morning when he was still here an email was sent supposedly from him not to contact him that he wasn't interested and never would be. I didn't read it until he left and I called him and told him about the emails. I do not know if it is a hacker or as I suspect his ex wife who has at other times tried to interfere. He is a very kind man and would not possibly see that his ex would do something like this. Well today we were to see each other and he has called and said he doesn't think we should see each other for awhile that all this email stuff is freaking him out and he needs to figure out whats going on. He cannot get back into his account by the way it keeps saying he is putting in the wrong password. I asked if he thought it was his ex and he said he didn't know and I don't think he would be a very good liar. How should I handle this? Should I just let it go and hope he comes back or should I try and see him and reason with him. Also is there any way of finding out who did this? Until now we have had a totally happy relationship. this man is pulling the wool over your head. he almost had me beleiving this.....
SadBabyGirl Posted March 16, 2005 Posted March 16, 2005 theone44, When my ex boyfriend wanted to break up with me he was sneaky. He lied to me telling me that he went overseas and that he was not coming back. Then he supposedly left right. So... I didnt hear from him in almost a month. I got worried..coz i thought we would still stay in contact. So i finally get an email from him from overseas .. saying focus on ur future blah blah blah. But for some reason... I had the gut feeling he NEVER LEFT (in time i would find i was right). So what i did was i installed a software, called Email Tracking Pro. What i did, was on the EMAIL he sent.. this was yahoo...I clicked where it says full headers. it shows u the IP from where the email came. I cut and pasted the IP into the software window .. the software then boom boom boom... showed me exactly from where the email came from. My ex was busted and my heart was broken. But hey its an idea my friend. Maybe you can find out the truth this way? I found this software on download.com and im sure using the words email track u can find them. All the Best to you, I hope it all turns out okay in the end.
theone44 Posted March 18, 2005 Posted March 18, 2005 Originally posted by SadBabyGirl theone44, When my ex boyfriend wanted to break up with me he was sneaky. He lied to me telling me that he went overseas and that he was not coming back. Then he supposedly left right. So... I didnt hear from him in almost a month. I got worried..coz i thought we would still stay in contact. So i finally get an email from him from overseas .. saying focus on ur future blah blah blah. But for some reason... I had the gut feeling he NEVER LEFT (in time i would find i was right). So what i did was i installed a software, called Email Tracking Pro. What i did, was on the EMAIL he sent.. this was yahoo...I clicked where it says full headers. it shows u the IP from where the email came. I cut and pasted the IP into the software window .. the software then boom boom boom... showed me exactly from where the email came from. My ex was busted and my heart was broken. But hey its an idea my friend. Maybe you can find out the truth this way? I found this software on download.com and im sure using the words email track u can find them. All the Best to you, I hope it all turns out okay in the end. Ok thank!!!! i will check this out at download.com. Now u wonder why the divorce rate is so high up. I read it said the average man or woman will be in the divorce or relationship break-up with in 3 years after they hook up..boy that sound scary
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