IhavenoFREAKINclue Posted March 14, 2005 Posted March 14, 2005 UHHHHHHH OHHHHHHHH. I didn't want this to happen for a long time now. I was telling myself that i wasn't going to fall in love again for a while. But here I am again. in the same position i was in 3 years ago. Falling to quickly in love again. I have been dating this guy for about 3 months now. And we have the most amazing time. It started out as a blind date and now here we are.....a couple. I know I'm going to get my hearth broken again. This always happens to me. I attach myself to people and get emotionally to close to them and i push them away. I haven't said anything to him. I think in his head as of now were still having fun. I know he's crazy about me but i don't think he loves me. Should I jut continue loving him and thats that? Or should i distance myself to try to ease myself of these feelings?
blind_otter Posted March 14, 2005 Posted March 14, 2005 Is he worth it? If so, maybe you should invest some time working on your issue of pushing people away?? I do this, too, so I know how you feel. The good guys, I tend to push away because I don't want to hurt them and don't want them to hurt me - the a**h***s get more attention because I don't mind hurting them or rejecting them. Weird issues. Anyways this is why I am staying single for a while....I don't want to be in the position you are in, but I definately let myself have crushes right and left. Oh what would I do without my long elaborate sex fantasies of my friend K?? ha ha ha.
Author IhavenoFREAKINclue Posted March 14, 2005 Author Posted March 14, 2005 Originally posted by tiki Go for it, full force. Congrats!! Thanks tiki! Originally posted by blind_otter Is he worth it? Yes Smart, funny, genuine, cute, sexy, good in bed.....what more can you ask for?
Illusion24 Posted March 14, 2005 Posted March 14, 2005 Why is it that everyone (almost everyone) thinks falling in love is a bad thing??? Why stop it??? Why ask Why?? When you meet someone that makes you feel all tingley inside and makes you feel good about yourself, makes you laugh, makes you feel special...the question you should be asking yourself is WHY do I want to push it away??? Don't be afraid of feeling good with someone...if you're falling in love let it be...you know that if it doesn't work out you'll get over it you did the last time...and what let me guess you won't find anyone else...well you found this one!!! Don't be afraid of what your feeling or make it seem like it's a bad thing and you're going to get hurt...what if you hurt him??? what if he's the one??? the only way you can answer those questions is by letting it happen Their's no such thing of falling to quickly in love...if it's love you know that's all....Go with the flow you might be in for a ride...
blind_otter Posted March 14, 2005 Posted March 14, 2005 Originally posted by NeverSayNever Why is it that everyone (almost everyone) thinks falling in love is a bad thing??? Why stop it??? Why ask Why?? When ya get to be my age....just kidding, I'm only 25, but with a failed marriage and an attempt to start a family under my belt I am just more reluctant to put myself out there. I have f*cked up a lot of relationships, and I have been in a lot of f*cked up relationships -- it just makes sense that the more sh*t you've been through the less likely you are to want to put yourself in harm's way. That said, IHNFC, congrats and I wish you all the best. Good luuuuuck.
Author IhavenoFREAKINclue Posted March 14, 2005 Author Posted March 14, 2005 Originally posted by NeverSayNever Why is it that everyone (almost everyone) thinks falling in love is a bad thing??? Why stop it??? Why ask Why?? When you meet someone that makes you feel all tingley inside and makes you feel good about yourself, makes you laugh, makes you feel special...the question you should be asking yourself is WHY do I want to push it away??? Don't be afraid of feeling good with someone...if you're falling in love let it be...you know that if it doesn't work out you'll get over it you did the last time...and what let me guess you won't find anyone else...well you found this one!!! Don't be afraid of what your feeling or make it seem like it's a bad thing and you're going to get hurt...what if you hurt him??? what if he's the one??? the only way you can answer those questions is by letting it happen Their's no such thing of falling to quickly in love...if it's love you know that's all....Go with the flow you might be in for a ride... Thank you very much NSN! Your right. I shouldn't be asking why. I should let nature take its course and if i get hurt, so what. Lesson learned. If i was happy before him, I will be happy after him.I don't think falling in love is a bad thing, i just didn't want to fall in love so quickly after my break up 6 months ago. Thanx a lot NSN! You made my decision for me! I'm going to pursue it and see where the road takes us.
Illusion24 Posted March 14, 2005 Posted March 14, 2005 Well thier you go...thats what I like to hear positive attitude you are worth something and thats all you have to remember...if he doesn't love you I will...
Author IhavenoFREAKINclue Posted March 14, 2005 Author Posted March 14, 2005 Originally posted by NeverSayNever if he doesn't love you I will... Tear.....
Merin Posted March 14, 2005 Posted March 14, 2005 Congrats Girl! Falling in Love... so damn scary uh?! LOL Well, I'm right there with ya sista... said I wouldn't do it again... then... daaammmnnnnn! Go sloooowwwww and enjoy what you've got going on right now;)
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