Adferger1 Posted November 3, 2014 Posted November 3, 2014 Me and my ex had a good 6 months relationship. We were the perfect match. Everybody told us how perfect we were together. And we would enjoy every single minute together... Even her parents told me that even when I was not around she could only talk about me. We had a long distance relationship, and the days we were not together she would write me love notes, and told me how much she missed me... The change She is a girl who commits 120% to everything she does. She is very goal orientated... So she started her new school and new job in the city she lives in. She was looking forward to it, but I could feel it also stressed her out. How was she going to commit 120% to both a full time job and full time school, while maintaining a long distance relationship?? I have plans on moveing there when I can find a job and get my house sold, but who knows how long that will take? So she broke it up with me... She said she really really wanted to be with me, but she lost her feelings (in 1 week)... She said it was very hard on her as all logic told her that I was "the one"... Ofcause starting a new job and a new school, with a lot of new people just adds to her stress. She needs to do well in school and also do well at her new job, and when she has some free time she needs to spend it with new friends... She needs a new social circel, and needs to show them the best sides of herself... Oh well.... At this point many of you would say "She said she lost feelings for you, it is over! Move on"... Well... If I knew it was like that. That those strong feelings has completely disappeard overnight, then fine! I could move on... But I am so sure that there is still something left... Here is why: She seems to force herself to act as cold as possible towards me. IF we do text together, she just uses one word replies. When I act cold and do not reply to her she "wakes up" so to speak. She becomes very interrested, but only in one thing! The house sale and my moving to her city.... After I reply to those things she becomes cold again... When I do No Contact she shows signs of needyness. She texts me many times about "How are you", "How is everything at work", "How is the job search", "did you sell your house"... And when I break the No Contact and reply, she is very hot for 1 day (tells me how sweet I am, how good I look ect) but then goes back to her cold behaviour., when she sees I am still interrested in her.. I have now removed her from all social medias and deleted her number. Mainly for my own good. But also to help her make up her mind about what she wants with me... I dont know if this was a good move? Wouldn´t it just put more presure on her??? Haven´t heard from her in 1,5 weeks
Author Adferger1 Posted November 4, 2014 Author Posted November 4, 2014 Any feedback for me? Really need some input...
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