prettyocean Posted November 3, 2014 Posted November 3, 2014 Hi guys I'm new here Basically I'm in second year at University and I've been liking this guy for over a year now! We both caught each others eyes in week one of starting uni in a crowded campus and I thought I'll never see him again.....now we're 2nd year and he's in one my lectures! I always catch him starring at me and he sometimes smiles at me when he's alone, but when he's with his friends he's kinda shy and quiet and I've been realising he's friends all stare at me and laugh about when I walk past them?! They sometimes goes really quiet or talk over-the-top loud when I'm around them? I'm just not sure if he really likes me or fooling around? If he does...why doesn't he just say hi or approach me any way? Thanks for the help
Assasda Posted November 3, 2014 Posted November 3, 2014 the question is why dont you approach him and say hi. Youre the one with the conundrum. -except ofcourse, if youre a mind reader, and you know whats going through his brain
Author prettyocean Posted November 3, 2014 Author Posted November 3, 2014 I don't mind approaching him to say hi but..... 1:He's always around with his friends and I don't wanna embarrass him or myself. 2:He's shown me a lot of 'interest signs' but my 'conundrum' is that if he is interested, why is he taking so long to approach me? He hasn't even said a simple hi to me for all this time hes shown interest?!
ExpatInItaly Posted November 3, 2014 Posted November 3, 2014 I don't mind approaching him to say hi but..... 1:He's always around with his friends and I don't wanna embarrass him or myself. 2:He's shown me a lot of 'interest signs' but my 'conundrum' is that if he is interested, why is he taking so long to approach me? He hasn't even said a simple hi to me for all this time hes shown interest?! What are these signs, exactly?
d0nnivain Posted November 3, 2014 Posted November 3, 2014 Try sitting near him in your lecture. Ask to borrow his notes. Offer to study together for the next test.
Author prettyocean Posted November 4, 2014 Author Posted November 4, 2014 What are these signs, exactly? He smiles at me whenever he sees me (usually when he's not around his group of friends). His friends act like they know me; for instant they kinda push him towards my direction whenever they see me and I once heard one of them say 'there she is' when I was walking passed them. Also I've noticed whenever he walks late into lectures, he stands by the doorway, takes a good look around like he's searching for something and when he sees me, he will try and sit at the desks right near (almost next) to my desk when there are in fact, plenty of other empty desks around.
Tayken Posted November 5, 2014 Posted November 5, 2014 @OP....Why haven't you approached him? Whatever you answer is, applies to him also. It's an equality thing these days 1
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