amicrazy75 Posted November 3, 2014 Posted November 3, 2014 So this 20 year marriage is really over. He is now "seeing" someone so I told him today that we need to move forward with the divorce. The reason I am doing this is that I am tired of being in his web and lies. He tries to keep me in his "control" and yet when he is around he talks to me like I am dirt. I have stopped answering the phone all the time and told him no longer is he allowed to "stop by" without letting me know. Now I need some advice and/or suggestions about what I need to "ask for" in the divorce. I do not want to forget something that could be very important. If anyone has any suggestions please let me know. Thanks
Mr. Lucky Posted November 3, 2014 Posted November 3, 2014 Almost impossible to help without knowing more about your situation. Kids? House? Business? Assets? Are you physically and/or legally separated? Mr. Lucky
Author amicrazy75 Posted November 4, 2014 Author Posted November 4, 2014 We are physically separated but not legally. We have two children 20 & 15 but really no fight there. He will always be their dad and I would never keep him from them. We have a single wide that will be paid off end of next year and we both have a car. The house is in both names but all cars are just in mine. The verbal agreement is that when the house is paid for he would get the car in his name. (right now they are drafted from my paycheck & he pays the house pmt) Car insurance is also just in my name so I pay that drafted from my check as well. We already have all the other bills split but once the house is paid for I just want this to be over and done. Hope this helps.
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