Irvin088 Posted November 3, 2014 Posted November 3, 2014 Hello All, This is a long story, so here's the quick synopsis Met a girl online in July and went on 4 dates with her, my schedule got busy (literally 9-9 every day of the week) and she ended up going exclusive with another guy. When I first met her; she told me that she had been seeing him at the same time as me, but had not made any decision, so I was not shocked. She was very honest about it not being that she did not like me, but was in love with him. Let me make this clear: She chose him over me. I am not denying that and it has nothing to do with my question. He broke up with her about 2 months later (a month ago) and she was heart broken. Since then we have re-established connection, met up a few times, and text/talk regularly. I'm getting signals that she may be using me as a rebound, but may also be plain confused due to the nature of the breakup and has no idea how she feels about me. I do think there may be a future for us, but I worry about being used as a rebound might ruin any chance. My questions is: How do I approach a conversation with her about our "relationship" and work through it without pushing her away? Thanks!
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