Jimmyjackson Posted November 2, 2014 Posted November 2, 2014 My ex girlfriend broke up with me 2 months ago. I'm 22 and she is 19..she left me because she lost feelings for me and someone else sparked her interest. She seems to have completely moved on, im finding it difficult as she was my first relationship and the first girl I slept with. I see her uploading pictures or the pictures i still have in my phone of her and it makes me feel sad because she was really hot, she was this great person who had all the little things that I desired in a girl - our personalities were so alike. Anyway, she's moved on but sometimes I feel as though my relationship never happened? it feels so long ago. We were together for 9 months and even though it's still a pretty recent break up it seems like someone else's memory, it's like I can't believe how quickly things can change. Those 9 months seemed to go very quick, one minute we're in love, then all of a sudden I'm alone and she isn't interested anymore. Maybe its because it's my first break up, maybe it's because I've not experienced other women yet - hence why I find her so attractive and have her on this pedestal.
tikay00 Posted November 2, 2014 Posted November 2, 2014 Dude, you HAVE to delete her from social media. Trust me on this. You will go crazy!
Author Jimmyjackson Posted November 3, 2014 Author Posted November 3, 2014 just feels so strange, I miss everything that we had. I see her as a completely different person now. I remember the times she was really affectionate and loving, seems like a dream...feels like a long time ago but also not if that makes any sense? sorry for the soppy thread, didn't wanna annoy my friends with this stuff since guys aren't meant to talk about their feelings and stuff
BC1980 Posted November 3, 2014 Posted November 3, 2014 just feels so strange, I miss everything that we had. I see her as a completely different person now. I remember the times she was really affectionate and loving, seems like a dream...feels like a long time ago but also not if that makes any sense? sorry for the soppy thread, didn't wanna annoy my friends with this stuff since guys aren't meant to talk about their feelings and stuff Yes, it makes sense. It feels like a different lifetime for me. But then again, it's like it was yesterday. I wish I had more answers, but it is difficult to do a complete 180 after you have been emotionally invested in a person. It's as if they died and are no longer there. It's just weird and difficult to accept, but it becomes more normal over time and with distance from the person. You tend to forget things like what they smelled like, their voice, the details of their face even. It's almost like you are looking at the relationship from the outside.
Author Jimmyjackson Posted November 3, 2014 Author Posted November 3, 2014 Yes, it makes sense. It feels like a different lifetime for me. But then again, it's like it was yesterday. I wish I had more answers, but it is difficult to do a complete 180 after you have been emotionally invested in a person. It's as if they died and are no longer there. It's just weird and difficult to accept, but it becomes more normal over time and with distance from the person. You tend to forget things like what they smelled like, their voice, the details of their face even. It's almost like you are looking at the relationship from the outside. Yeah I feel exactly the same way, maybe I just need to meet new women and realise that she's not as special as I think she is. If there's one thing I can take from the relationship it's all the things that she used to tell me about how great I am etc. I should start believing in these things myself because she was right about one thing, right? I guess it just sucks when someone moves on and you're still struggling to deal with it
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