Torrent9420 Posted November 2, 2014 Posted November 2, 2014 So we have been dating for about a month now. And about 3 days ago, we got into our first fight. Because her parents said that because I had a past relationship and I broke up with the girl I was not worthy. She is 20 this girl Im dating now. Anyways so she tells me "I cant be with you if my parents find out." And I told her "No im sorry but Im worth more than that to myself, and If you are trying to hide me than it shows me that you to think Im not worthy" She than says its her parents and she needs to listen to them and agree with them. I told her at the end that if that is the case than Im walking out of this relationship, Im done and will not be treated like garbage. I want to date a independent women not one who needs mom and dads approval. Anyways at the end we settle things. But now today and yesterday she is acting strange with me and distance from me. Im sorry but I stood up for myself and showed im not one to walk all over.
Tayken Posted November 2, 2014 Posted November 2, 2014 I want to date a independent women not one who needs mom and dads approval. You forgot to mention how old or young you are, and to be honest most 20yr old are still under the care of their parents. If she goes against her parents and gets thrown out, are you ready to take her in? She will be stupid to put you before her parents.
Author Torrent9420 Posted November 2, 2014 Author Posted November 2, 2014 Listen Im 21 but her parents even said it they would never throw her out. Even if she did date me, she told me that herself. She just does not want to make them displeased with her. I live at home to. Its just that it bothers me
IronZ Posted November 2, 2014 Posted November 2, 2014 Didn't you already make a thread about this same thing. The advice we provided there still stands.. nothing seems to have changed. 1
MTmama Posted November 3, 2014 Posted November 3, 2014 Have you asked to meet her parents? Can you establish a relationship with them? Do you think that this is a family, where family means something and you need to respect that? I am glad you stood up for yourself, and feel that you can communicate with your GF. Can you improve on that by continuing to be open, upfront and proactive when it comes to talking to her parents? Can you involve them in your life?
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