Targetlock Posted November 2, 2014 Posted November 2, 2014 Been thinking about this for a while and decided it is worth one last try contacting my Ex, it has been a month and ive heard nothing and I havent contacted her either after this i'm done and will be able to move on, not expecting anything but will take that as my answer if that happens. well friday night I did it, a nice simple message nothing too major just a friendly hello how are you kind of message. feel better for doing it, just going to wait and see what happens I guess, if I don't hear anything by the end of the weekend I consider it done, wipe my hands of it and let it be I guess.
SoThatHappened Posted November 2, 2014 Posted November 2, 2014 It's already done, man. I hope this gives you the final push you need to move on. Please don't contact her any more after this. There are so many women out there. You can work on yourself and find one that will make you forget about the current ex. 3
angel.eyes Posted November 2, 2014 Posted November 2, 2014 Sorry about the breakup! It can be truly painful especially if you remain hopeful. Focus on you--exercise, start a new hobby, or tackle some type of self-improvement goal. Hang out with your friends. Just stay busy so that you don't have time to dwell on her and the breakup. It will eventually get better. 2
Author Targetlock Posted November 2, 2014 Author Posted November 2, 2014 It's already done, man. I hope this gives you the final push you need to move on. Please don't contact her any more after this. There are so many women out there. You can work on yourself and find one that will make you forget about the current ex. nope not going to message her any more after this, if she doesn't contact me back i'm deleting all her contact details, and moving on, not worth pursuing this just easier to let go and move on, I almost had to do this last message as closure for myself to be honest just to know for certain. plus after sending that message I feel much more positive and more like my old self, tired of moping and back to being me 3
jackinthebox1 Posted November 2, 2014 Posted November 2, 2014 You really are better not contacting her honestly. Whatever u think, once u contact her she knows u want to get back with her and wont feel any loss, then it will take another 6 months. Only way to keep an attraction there is no NC
SoThatHappened Posted November 2, 2014 Posted November 2, 2014 nope not going to message her any more after this, if she doesn't contact me back i'm deleting all her contact details, and moving on, not worth pursuing this just easier to let go and move on, I almost had to do this last message as closure for myself to be honest just to know for certain. plus after sending that message I feel much more positive and more like my old self, tired of moping and back to being me I like it! Good job, man. 1
loversquarrel Posted November 2, 2014 Posted November 2, 2014 I did this with my ex. I broke up with her, but it was something I didn't want to do but had to. I contacted her a few months after the break and she ignored me. It served as a good reminder to me as to why I made the decision I did. I didn't feel worse but was a little pissed at myself for giving her the impression of some kind of power over me. Looking back on it, I am actually glad she didn't answer or respond.
Author Targetlock Posted November 3, 2014 Author Posted November 3, 2014 well like I predicted she failed to contact me, and I know she read my message as well. so that is what she wants, that is what she is going to get, i'm done and had enough of trying, its time to stop moping and begin get on with my life I have already deleted all her contact details and the photos, its a shame but that is how life is sometimes I guess.
slizl Posted November 3, 2014 Posted November 3, 2014 Good for you. Honestly, I have always been an advocate of one last try to contact. It always has helped me in the past with closure. 2
lemonsugar Posted November 3, 2014 Posted November 3, 2014 well like I predicted she failed to contact me, and I know she read my message as well. so that is what she wants, that is what she is going to get, i'm done and had enough of trying, its time to stop moping and begin get on with my life I have already deleted all her contact details and the photos, its a shame but that is how life is sometimes I guess. Good for you At least you dotn have what if if ever etc. You gave it a shot she shown her true colours so you can move forward 1
Author Targetlock Posted November 3, 2014 Author Posted November 3, 2014 thanks and yes she has shown her true colours sadly, just not worth the effort anymore to be honest, glad I did it felt so much better this weekend, like a weight was lifted and I guess it was. well if I can find love once I can find it again and hopefully for longer this time 1
Chatmonkey Posted November 3, 2014 Posted November 3, 2014 Good job mate. Good inspiration for others stay strong my friend 1
Author Targetlock Posted November 4, 2014 Author Posted November 4, 2014 Good job mate. Good inspiration for others stay strong my friend thanks after a while I decided its just not worth the trouble and have let it go hopefully I will find someone new who will be so much better, I found love once, I can find it again 1
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