Tik Posted November 2, 2014 Posted November 2, 2014 We went out once but date went to poop; basically she gave me all the signals you'd think from a girl not interested (even though she was the one chasing me at first - blowing up my phone, asking me out, acting like the girl infatuated by me). Bear in mind we are approaching a critical period of study so stress is picking up and she's the straight and narrow type. Now we planned a second date that never eventuated. We continued messaging but she'd never reply to my teasing or flirtations and then simply stopped replying. I didn't chase; replied as do. Then she stopped replying and I don't double text. So now we only keep in touch if we bump into each other at university. Bumping into her is hot and cold. -I catch her staring at me some times and when we've talked, there have been times she's stared at my lips -With no one around and I went up and gave her a massage etc and she loved it. -Walked out of class with her and she simply stopped walking - no good byes and waited for her friends. -She walked into a room I was studying and simply walked out; then apologized that night for ignoring me -Bump into her at the cafe and we strike up a conversation although she acts distant then simply walks away; no good bye what not -Walk past saying goodbye after study practice and she completely ignores me; doesn't even look up saying good bye As you can see I just don't get it. I was the one she turned down. Yet she is the one giving me the cold shoulder. I'll mention that I didn't act like a rejected love sick puppy. I'm pretty popular so continued to be happy with friends, flirt with girls everywhere and still be one that people want to be with having the time of my life. I'm pretty good with woman but what gives?!
CoolCat771 Posted November 2, 2014 Posted November 2, 2014 We went out once but date went to poop; basically she gave me all the signals you'd think from a girl not interested (even though she was the one chasing me at first - blowing up my phone, asking me out, acting like the girl infatuated by me). Bear in mind we are approaching a critical period of study so stress is picking up and she's the straight and narrow type. Now we planned a second date that never eventuated. We continued messaging but she'd never reply to my teasing or flirtations and then simply stopped replying. I didn't chase; replied as do. Then she stopped replying and I don't double text. So now we only keep in touch if we bump into each other at university. Bumping into her is hot and cold. -I catch her staring at me some times and when we've talked, there have been times she's stared at my lips -With no one around and I went up and gave her a massage etc and she loved it. -Walked out of class with her and she simply stopped walking - no good byes and waited for her friends. -She walked into a room I was studying and simply walked out; then apologized that night for ignoring me -Bump into her at the cafe and we strike up a conversation although she acts distant then simply walks away; no good bye what not -Walk past saying goodbye after study practice and she completely ignores me; doesn't even look up saying good bye As you can see I just don't get it. I was the one she turned down. Yet she is the one giving me the cold shoulder. I'll mention that I didn't act like a rejected love sick puppy. I'm pretty popular so continued to be happy with friends, flirt with girls everywhere and still be one that people want to be with having the time of my life. I'm pretty good with woman but what gives?! Like my own situation, I think this girl needs a temporary emotional crutch of bandage to deal with some sort of other baggage she's going through. You stroke her ego and she likes it at the time, but when she's had her fill, she's looking for her real conquest. Those are my two cents. Give me hand with my sitch? http://www.loveshack.org/forums/romantic/dating/499944-attracted-depressive-snobby-female-her-scent
Redhead14 Posted November 4, 2014 Posted November 4, 2014 We went out once but date went to poop; basically she gave me all the signals you'd think from a girl not interested (even though she was the one chasing me at first - blowing up my phone, asking me out, acting like the girl infatuated by me). Bear in mind we are approaching a critical period of study so stress is picking up and she's the straight and narrow type. Now we planned a second date that never eventuated. We continued messaging but she'd never reply to my teasing or flirtations and then simply stopped replying. I didn't chase; replied as do. Then she stopped replying and I don't double text. So now we only keep in touch if we bump into each other at university. Bumping into her is hot and cold. -I catch her staring at me some times and when we've talked, there have been times she's stared at my lips -With no one around and I went up and gave her a massage etc and she loved it. -Walked out of class with her and she simply stopped walking - no good byes and waited for her friends. -She walked into a room I was studying and simply walked out; then apologized that night for ignoring me -Bump into her at the cafe and we strike up a conversation although she acts distant then simply walks away; no good bye what not -Walk past saying goodbye after study practice and she completely ignores me; doesn't even look up saying good bye As you can see I just don't get it. I was the one she turned down. Yet she is the one giving me the cold shoulder. I'll mention that I didn't act like a rejected love sick puppy. I'm pretty popular so continued to be happy with friends, flirt with girls everywhere and still be one that people want to be with having the time of my life. I'm pretty good with woman but what gives?! She dropped you. She's not a very mature woman if she's giving you the cold shoulder when seeing you again in other circles. Plain and simple. Who cares? Ask someone else out and enjoy yourself. Stop rehashing this one.
PogoStick Posted November 4, 2014 Posted November 4, 2014 You are being a sick puppy. You went out and it didn't click. Move on. Stop giving her the time of day. She rejected you and she gets a massage for it! WTF man!? New rule. The next massage goes to the girl who gives you the next BJ.
Assasda Posted November 4, 2014 Posted November 4, 2014 I think something went wrong on the date. Either way, why are you needy for this girls attention? You need her to tell you goodbye to get some kinda ego boost? Bro, move on There are other women that could be getting your time
Tayken Posted November 5, 2014 Posted November 5, 2014 I think something went wrong on the date. Either way, why are you needy for this girls attention? You need her to tell you goodbye to get some kinda ego boost? Bro, move on There are other women that could be getting your time Perhaps OP is one of those that play into the hands of these self-esteem hungry types. Rule #1....never stroke anyone's ego. What she has (what she thinks you are desperate for), can be had elsewhere for less aggravation and probably better.
Author Tik Posted November 5, 2014 Author Posted November 5, 2014 Totally forgot about this post as it just drifted away. Yeah cheers guys. I was just amused and curious. Already moved on Have a great day all!
Tayken Posted November 5, 2014 Posted November 5, 2014 Hatta boy...plenty more where that smelly fish came from
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