megsheaven Posted November 2, 2014 Posted November 2, 2014 Me and ex broke up 2 months ago and he already has a new girlfriend. He swore he loved me right up until it all came crashing down. So he told me that he met someone out of the blue and they started dating. My question is this, if we were still together when they met what might have happened? Would he have cheated? I know he might not have but there would still have been an attraction between them. Plus he has lots of female friends so he would definately have friended her, to keep her close. It's just something that came to mind and thought I would see what you guys think. Thank you. :-)
lyndaaxo Posted November 2, 2014 Posted November 2, 2014 You don't know, and never will. Maybe he wouldn't have seen her in that way, the circumstances would've been different. Don't worry yourself thinking about it.
clementyne Posted November 2, 2014 Posted November 2, 2014 What's the real reason for asking this? Is it that you suspect he actually met her while he was with you? Or are you trying to reassure yourself that he didn't cheat on you?
Author megsheaven Posted November 2, 2014 Author Posted November 2, 2014 I never said he cheated on me, was only asking for advice.
clementyne Posted November 2, 2014 Posted November 2, 2014 I know you didn't say he cheated on you, but from the way you ask the question, it seems to suggest that perhaps somewhere in the back of your mind there may be a slight niggle or doubt regarding his fidelity. Otherwise you wouldn't have asked this question As for advice, well there's not much to say since this is a hypothetical scenario, except that you could always ask your ex this question and see what his response is? Other than that, I'd say just enjoy your life and stop worrying about things which didn't even happen, except in your (overthinking) mind.
hasan1 Posted November 2, 2014 Posted November 2, 2014 Reasons to break upDiscover How to Attract a Man, Captivate Him, and Keep Him for Good! - Attract and Captivate It maybe one of the reasons that you did not notice what he wanted actually.We have to be always careful about "One night stand"and "lifetime relationship".
Author megsheaven Posted November 2, 2014 Author Posted November 2, 2014 Thanks for all the advice. I'll never really know the answer as we don't keep in contact now. I guess in a way I was just coming up with this in my head to get over him quicker, trying to convince myself he's a total pig, lol. I guess our minds play silly tricks on us when our hearts are healing. Many thanks.
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