pepsimax Posted November 1, 2014 Posted November 1, 2014 Hi I met this guy online about 6 months ago. Seen him a few times. I know he isn't serious but I am attracted to him. Last night I went to him and there was some intimate contact but no sex. There is this movie I wanna see and all my girl friends have seen. I thought about asking him. What do you think? If yes how do I ask without scaring him..I want him to know that I understand that he doesn't want a relationship with me but I like hanging out with him. Thanks
newmoon Posted November 1, 2014 Posted November 1, 2014 you are offering yourself up on a platter to him. if he isn't serious you are either going to a) end up as sex partner/FWB and nothing more, or b) get rejected. why not find someone who likes you and wants to be serious with you? if all you want is a hook up, call him. if you want more, then don't.
preraph Posted November 1, 2014 Posted November 1, 2014 Just based on what you told me, I wouldn't do that. A movie is a date. You guys have fooled around, but he hasn't asked you out. If he wanted to ask you out, I imagine he would have before or after you fooled around. If you want someone to go out with, you need to pick someone who isn't just letting you "have intimate contact" with him and initiates more. Preferably before intimate contact. 1
Assasda Posted November 1, 2014 Posted November 1, 2014 hahaha Sounds like you just want to have sex with this guy OP. Who am I to judge? ... anyway, If you want to do that, Tell him that you give awesome BJs Everything after that should be cake 1
Tayken Posted November 1, 2014 Posted November 1, 2014 There is this movie I wanna see and all my girl friends have seen. Have you thought about just going to see said movie yourself? 1
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