jackinthebox1 Posted November 1, 2014 Posted November 1, 2014 I'm male so our support system is different. I have two close friends who i have updated with pretty much every bad feeling i've had in this process. It's really helped. I've talked about it so much that i'm getting sick of it myself, but i don't want to annoy them or be that guy who goes on about his ex to everyone. But i do still want to talk about it to them. Should i keep mentioning it or try and keep it to myself? I just want to move an as quickly as possible so whatever helps heal
tikay00 Posted November 1, 2014 Posted November 1, 2014 I'm male so our support system is different. I have two close friends who i have updated with pretty much every bad feeling i've had in this process. It's really helped. I've talked about it so much that i'm getting sick of it myself, but i don't want to annoy them or be that guy who goes on about his ex to everyone. But i do still want to talk about it to them. Should i keep mentioning it or try and keep it to myself? I just want to move an as quickly as possible so whatever helps heal If you're a guy, don't over do it. I did it with a female friend, and I can tell it was wearing on her, and also with a buddy I haven't spoken to in a while. I know you think you NEED someone to vent to, but it's selfish to keep calling, and calling about YOUR problems. You're not paying them to talk for hours, so they don't owe you anything up to a certain point of consoling. How do you think I found this site? lol
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