MargeryFlower Posted November 1, 2014 Posted November 1, 2014 ..it took me time to do it but i broke up with him yesterday. I should have broken up with him when i found out that he cheated. I guess i didn't want to believe it was over. I hoped things would change and be better. I was holding on to something that was broken. Yesterday i asked him for his FB password...out of curiosity to see what his reaction would be. He told me 2 weeks ago when i found out the first time he would do anything to prove that he is changing and being honest, even if that meant giving me all his passwords. To me that was insane..i would never dare ask to go into his business..He knows that. I just left it at that. These past 2 weeks have been hell for me. I have been hurting and so confused on my feelings, just hoping it would be a bad dream that i wake up from soon. I was still sure he was still talking to the girls so i decided yesterday to ask him about his password. His reply was ''**** NO'' ''You are joking right?'' It was obvious to me by his reaction that he is still hiding stuff. I told him that if he had nothing to hide there would be no issue in giving me his passwords, like he said he would. He called me and flipped out on me saying i was a pest and to **** off.. He got caught again...and he got mad. I told him i was done with our relationship and that i don't want to speak to him anymore. He told me he said the stuff he did on the phone cos he was mad because he has no time for this stuff. I told him i find it very interesting that he would rather fight with me and let our relationship be over with rather than just giving me a stupid password to a social website if he had nothing to hide. I have blocked him on whatsapp, deleted him and blocked him on FB and im ready for this NC stuff so i can just move on. I feel sick to my stomach because it's becoming clear that this is real. I feel like i need to message him one more time just to let him know how i feel and that i am breaking off all contact. Is this a good idea or should i just cold turkey stop talking to him?
Seeker12 Posted November 1, 2014 Posted November 1, 2014 Go cold turkey to be honest, starting up convo will only pull you back in and make you feel bad/worse, right now youre emotionally distraught and feeling every emotion under the sun, its the wrong time to engage with the thing which caused you this pain. You want the reality to hit sooner than later, otherwise your torture is just prolonged.
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