Zard0z Posted November 1, 2014 Posted November 1, 2014 I still have strong (but waining) feelings for my -ex (we broke upa little over a month ago. I was crushed, but I knew I had tostart moving on, or I'd eatmyself up. Anyway, ended up meeting a girl when after getting smashed. We met in a bar after a basebalk teammate egged me on because I had been complaining about my ex. Anyway, she couldn't speak much English at all, so I had to go with my Korean skills. A few weeks later agreed to h meet had dinner and went to a bar. I learned I can have a pretty interesting coversation in Korean (as long as my partner is patient). Tomorrow night we're gonna see Gone Girl and have real-deal Chinese food at a place my ex and I loved (I figure that will help me decrease the attachment to her by assocoiating a place we both loved with someone new) I just hope I can do right by this girl, even though I have feelings for my -ex.
d0nnivain Posted November 1, 2014 Posted November 1, 2014 Change restaurants. It's much too early for you to bring a date to someplace you & Your EX loved. You have to go there a few times with friends. If you bring this new girl all you will do is ruin everything doing a comparison.
Author Zard0z Posted November 1, 2014 Author Posted November 1, 2014 Ive been there with other people plenty of times before. I knew it before I met her. I legit like the food. Its awesome, they got the best sticky, slightly sweet fried pork-cutlet and awesome lamb skewers. Wash it down with some Chinese-German beer (Tsingtao), its perfect. I think I can distance myself a bit from it, and she won't pick up on it so easily if there is since Korean isn't my first language. And the food is just so awesome, that I think I can look past it. I'll let you know how it goes.
Author Zard0z Posted November 2, 2014 Author Posted November 2, 2014 Just so ya know. It went pretty well. I felt great. We watched "Gone Girl" and the restaurant was poppin'. We talked about interests and despite the language barrier we were never a loss for conversation. of course i still miss my ex, but i could see myself stayin with this girl for a few months maybe if things go the right way.
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