Lil-balla-al Posted March 13, 2005 Posted March 13, 2005 Hey guys/gals, i have a question. Im only 16 and ive known this girl for about 3 years..were just starting to get close and ive asked her on a date and she's said yes. but when ever i talk to her on the phone i can't think of anything to say. What is some good conversation on the phone??...thnx if any1 can help me out
RedneckRomeo Posted March 14, 2005 Posted March 14, 2005 I know there are some people on these boards that will give the advice to make it about her - ask questions about her day, her family, her life, her interests, her hobbies, and things that the two of you have in common even. Generally that is very good advice - but you don't want to overdo the question game. Sure, you don't want to be talking about yourself the whole time, but I don't think you want to let her do all the talking either - keep the conversation balanced. Find a good question to ask her - maybe about whether she did anything interesting today - and let her tell her story, listen and respond, and keep the conversation flowing from there, but dont be afraid to throw in details about yourself too. Dating and talking to people is usually about getting to know the other person better - and I'm sure she wants to know more about you just as much as you want to know more about her. Main thing is to be yourself and not try to impress her by trying to be something you're not. Don't get too involved in talking about how you feel for each other just yet, just talk about every day things or things that you'd like to know about her/like her to know about you. If all else fails, come up with a stupid topic, or talk about current events or the weather - She probably has some opinions about all of those some way or another. Talk to her as you would any other of your friends, and do what you can to find out more about her, let her know more about you, and become closer to each other. Be yourself, show her the real you, and hopefully you'll get to know the real her - and things will just keep going and getting better. I dont know how good my advice is because I've never really had a relationship, but I have talked to a few of my female friends on the phone - and when I didnt have anythign to say - I just came up with something dumb - talked about what I was doing right then, talked about smelling my mom's cooking and getting very hungry, talked about the snow and cold, how I wanted it to go away...the topics are endless - and the choice is yours/hers. Good Luck.
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