Why is my ex girlfriend acting like this and how did she move on so quick?

[deb0212]

My ex girlfriend of a year and a half broke up with me a little over three weeks ago, I don't see how she could move on so fast. It was a really bad break to the point to where we didn't talk to each other for a couple of weeks. When we finally did talk it didn't turn out too well, she told me she has completely moved on and that she's happy. I asked her if she had been doing anything with anyone or seeing any one and she told me that's her personal life and her business. Granted it is her business she made it obvious that she was doing something because she said shad had been going to parties every weekend and having experiences. When I ask her what those experiences are she just tells me the same thing that its her personal business and that she isn't asking about my personal. But I told her that I wasn't messing with anybody because we just broke up. I told her if she was messing with someone else it would only make me want to move on even more but she continued saying the same thing. Throughout the conversation it seemed like she was trying to put me down, because she said she heard I was doing ok but told me she knows its just a lie and when I'm home by myself I'm sad. I asked her if there is any chance of us getting back together she said no and that she doesn't want me anymore. She kept saying she wants to be there for me and help me through things but I told her how can she help me and be there for me if I know she is talking to other guys and she didn't respond. Through out the few weeks we had been broken up I did the NC, and when I saw her I acted like I didn't see her and I guess it bothered her. A couple days later she I was at the gym where she works and I didn't say anything to her like usual, but my roommate was there and she talked to him for about an hour asking him a lot of different questions. Before the break up she never talked to him at all, and she was kinda flirting with him and even tried to drop him off at my place even though she knew I would give him a ride home. She has also been keeping tabs on me and talking bad about me. But the last thing to happen is when my friend called to tell me that she has been messaging him about all the things she's been doing like going to parties and dancing on a guy and he fingered her and she didn't care. She told him that she's talking to four guys and she's looking for a friend with benefits. She told him that I will never get over her, and that she needs to be around a guy. Shes changed a lot because she told me when we were together that if we broke up she wouldn't mess with anybody for awhile and she wouldn't go to parties because she isn't like that. She seems cold hearted and doesn't care about my feelings, on social media she's talking about how she's looking for guys and she has hoes. We both took each others virginity, I was 20 and she was 18 and our relationship wasn't always like this just the last few months. But my thing is if she's so happy with messing around with other guys and partying, then why is she keeping tabs on me and talking about me behind my back. I was never bad to her in the relationship, I treated her like I loved her and took care of her when I could. She said she broke up with me because I stressed her out and because of my insecurities. But my insecurities came from the things she did in the relationship.

[loversquarrel]

Be glad she's your ex. You are young, learn from what I can tell you. I know it's hard right now, and it sucks bad. Your ex is being cruel to You, she is of questionable character, and is heading down a path that in the end, will take her to poor relationship endings. There are not a lot of guys that will remain committed to a girl like this, usually the ones that do end up hurt in the end. Let her have her fun, it will come at a cost, it always does. I dated a few girls like this....guess where they are... Not with me. I really fell hard for one but I couldn't let her indiscretions get the best of me and neither should you.