Not sure what to make of this situation

[canucks10]

Okay so I have been seeing this girl for 3.5-4 weeks now and have seen her about 7-8 times during that time span( I'm 21, she 19). She recentley got out of a 3 year relationship in June. So I was over at her place yesterday and she says that she wants to remain single cause she enjoying it after such a long time in a relationship but wants to keep seeing me and go out on dates and mess around and wait some time before she commits. I was like okay so like friends with benefits sort of and then see from there.

 

So we start going at it (same day as above) and get to second base and she whispers to me to bang her. So I start working my way down and then she stops me and says she wants to wait some time before we do the deed because after that everything changes (so confused at that point). So we make out some more and I left shortly after and am still not sure what to make of the situation.

 

The thing is I know she really likes me, she texts and snapchats me every day and is really into me. I asked her if we are seeing other people at the same time and she was like even if I meet another guy you will always be in the back of my mind so I wouldn't hook up with him. For me personally I like her but don't care if we have a commited relationship or just mess around just don't want to keep going back and forth between the two, rather have it set out. Also don't want to wait 2-3 months for sex if we are just gonna be friends with benefits. So am not sure how to proceed.

Edited October 31, 2014 by canucks10

[d0nnivain]

Just go with the flow & stop talking about it if you really don't care whether you are committed or FWB.

[Assasda]

Yeah, Just go with it.

She doesnt want to have sex with you because its too early for her.

She wants to be in a relationship with you, but she also doesnt want you to be hounding her about it.

 

So just enjoy it. Patience is rewarded my friend. Be patient and go with the flow