bubbaganoosh Posted November 2, 2014 Posted November 2, 2014 Im single & had a whirlwind romance with a married woman. Its over now, but whats weird is she hasn't begged me not to tell her husband or anyone else. I thought she'd be panicing & getting stressed incase I told her husband but shes not even batted an eyelid or even mentioned it. Its as if shes not worried which surprised me. How can she not be worried that her husband may find out...from someone else? because she isn't going to admit it to him & he doesn't know about affair. Im not going to tell him im not the revenge kinda person plus it wont get me anywhere. Friend, if you have a brain in your head, you'll do two things. First is stop messing with married women. Doesn't matter if she shows up on your door step butt naked. It's trouble in the first degree. Second, stop worrying about what he'll do to her if she gets caught. He'll divorce her and call her a few choice names but if he latches on to your ass, you damn well better have a real good medical plan where you work, and your will drawn up. He'll go to jail for whipping your ass raw but he's probably smart enough not to hit her 1
Author Trotters Posted November 2, 2014 Author Posted November 2, 2014 Friend, if you have a brain in your head, you'll do two things. First is stop messing with married women. Doesn't matter if she shows up on your door step butt naked. It's trouble in the first degree. Second, stop worrying about what he'll do to her if she gets caught. He'll divorce her and call her a few choice names but if he latches on to your ass, you damn well better have a real good medical plan where you work, and your will drawn up. He'll go to jail for whipping your ass raw but he's probably smart enough not to hit her Yes I know & that's why im wanting to cut all ties. Its her that still wants to be friends & that's what im wondering why she wants to stay friends with me when she knows theres every chance she could get caught whether its with me or someone else. I think shes learnt her lesson but she needs to keep that up forever not just temporarily.
spanz1 Posted November 2, 2014 Posted November 2, 2014 if you want to get emotionally involved with a woman, a single one is much better, for a number of reasons: 1) a married one is commited (financially, emotionally, legally) to another man. It would take a LOT to get her to be a long term lover. So the odds are she ONLY wants sex from you...not an emotional affair. 2) even if you COULD get her to leave her husband for you....she hs just proven to you that she does not take long term relationships seriously. You would be looking over your shoulder for her next lover to arrive. You know she is capable of lying to a husband! 3) there are soooo many single women out there....either never married, or divorced/widowed....and with modern dating software...there really are not hinderances to meeting them. So maybe look inward, figure out why you are so turned on dating "unavailable" women, and try to change yourself. Sure there is some thrill from seducing a married woman for sex...but it dies down very quickly. You can get that same thrill by seducing a reluctant single woman, or a younger (legal age) virgin.
No Limit Posted November 2, 2014 Posted November 2, 2014 I am not telling him because she should be doing that. Yeah, right. Of course she's now going to be absolutely honest and faithful to her husband, from the moment he rides his unicorn to the rianbow factory he works in until the very moment said unicorn is parked in their living room. You don't want to tell him because you don't want any trouble and maybe a quickie every now and than. Respect though that you don't use all the evidence against her to pressure her into a forced sexual relationship. 1
Man Mountain Makino Posted November 2, 2014 Posted November 2, 2014 It was special to both of us emotionally & physically over 9 months. She would have ended it ages ago if it wasn't special to her. She even said she connected with me. If I knew it wasn't special I would have ended it & she made lots of sacrifices for me, if I wasn't special she wouldn't have done it either. We had chemistry too according to her & it wasn't just sex. If that were true she wouldn't toss it aside with ease. You're in desperate need of some clarity, bro.
anne1707 Posted November 2, 2014 Posted November 2, 2014 She is not going to show whether she is worried or not because she wants you to feel that it is safe to restart the affair at some stage in the future. She is manipulating the situation so that the only person who is in control and knows what is really going on is her. 1
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