oldshirt Posted November 3, 2014 Posted November 3, 2014 Not really jumping in with both feet. Just met a couple of really cute guys here and there in the past few weeks and ready to start seeing them casually instead of only focusing on this one guy. Don't really see anything wrong with that - women have needs too... I was right - he was simply outplayed by a better playa'.
Tayken Posted November 3, 2014 Posted November 3, 2014 Not really jumping in with both feet. Just met a couple of really cute guys here and there in the past few weeks and ready to start seeing them casually instead of only focusing on this one guy. Don't really see anything wrong with that - women have needs too... Am sure they do...as long as you let these "cute guys" know that they are just one of a couple of people you are seeing.
venusishername Posted November 3, 2014 Posted November 3, 2014 He hasn't shown any signs of playing thus far. Texts me 24/7, even complained multiple times that I don't keep in touch often/well enough, I'm pushing back, etc. We see each other literally way too much for him to have anything on the side to be honest. Skyped him when he was gone on a few trips and he referred to me as his girlfriend already when speaking to new acquaintances made on the trips. Also, I did tell him at one point that I was only interested in sleeping with him, regardless of whether he chooses to sleep with other women while seeing me or not. Recent development: My MacBook broke 2 days ago so I started using his laptop yesterday (which he left at mine before going on his trip) and ended up looking through some of his photos. I know, I know I really should not have and that really betrays his trust, but now I don't think I can do this even if I was crazy in love with him. Literally found dozens of photos of naked/underwear-clad chicks pre/post sex with him since 2012. I feel like just a number, so I texted him that I want to take a step back and start seeing other people. Ready to move on to better things (: Thanks guys! Sounds like you really weren't into him too much from the start, seeing as you were only interested in sleeping with him and it didn't bother you in the slightest if he did sleep with others. Generally, as it progresses past a month if you were really into someone you wouldn't want that... so it seems like your true feelings did come through. Personally, if a guy told me how many women he's been with I'd be put off by it, despite the number. I don't feel that's something to discuss, particularly to be brought up in the early stages. Good for you for being true to you
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