GurlyGirl Posted March 13, 2005 Posted March 13, 2005 Hi everyone, I'm looking for some help here, basically my boyfriend and i had a big arguement last night and i really want to make it up to him. This is kind of a strange request for ideas but i've bought various fruits, chocolates, champagne and candles for a nice romantic night but i also bought some balloons not knowing what id do with them but hoping they'd find a use lol I'd like to do something romantic with them, perhaps put a love note in each one or something, if anyones got any ideas, id love to know Thanks X
very-confused-girl Posted March 13, 2005 Posted March 13, 2005 CurlyIam, it depends on what your boyfriend is into. If he is into romantic stuff, then what you have prepared is definitely a good idea. But dont forget that he is a guy and maybe renting a great action film from DVD shop or tickets to a football match would be better for him. If you want to invite him to your place and make something for him there, I dont know on which level of intimacy are you two, but to give you an example what I would do besides great dinner with candles - I would seduce him and give him pleasure beyond his imagination if you know what I mean
Author GurlyGirl Posted March 13, 2005 Author Posted March 13, 2005 Thanks! We actually live together so i do intend to lead the night towards a lusty night of pleasure lol thanks for the advice! X
Fun2BMe Posted March 13, 2005 Posted March 13, 2005 How about in each balloon you put a note of what it is you like most about him and/or your relationship and some can be sexy stuff! You can think of a game how to have them popped
scarface Posted March 13, 2005 Posted March 13, 2005 Originally posted by very-confused-girl CurlyIam, it depends on what your boyfriend is into. If he is into romantic stuff, then what you have prepared is definitely a good idea. But dont forget that he is a guy and maybe renting a great action film from DVD shop or tickets to a football match would be better for him. If you want to invite him to your place and make something for him there, I dont know on which level of intimacy are you two, but to give you an example what I would do besides great dinner with candles - I would seduce him and give him pleasure beyond his imagination if you know what I mean you look just like this girl i know named Jaime....
sjs61 Posted March 13, 2005 Posted March 13, 2005 Who started the argument? It really doesn't matter. Okay, only idea I would suggestion is leaving it alone. Take it from a pro...I have had numerous arguments with my now separated husband. I learn from my mistakes that never say you're sorry or try to be romantic cause once men are upset leave them be. They will come back or forget the argument. Just remember you will have many more arguments and your suggestions of showing your affection will dry out. Trust me when I say this. Only thing you can do is just make him his favorite dinner and just leave a note under his napkin. A note with only a few words. Suggested wordings: 1. We both need to forget this ridlicous argument. 2. You make me stronger each time we disagree. 3. Now I understand. 4. I see you're upset so I will talk with you when you are ready. 5. I support your decisions. All this is hard to believe but it works. You can say you're sorry until you're blue in the face. You can say I love you until you're blue in the face but the only solution is support each other during the arguments. Hope this helps..
very-confused-girl Posted March 13, 2005 Posted March 13, 2005 I have to disagree with sjs61, people are different. I would even say that her ex-husband is a little bit of exception. Normally guys do brush off things pretty quickly. They are heated up when they are arguing but after that they are OK again. I met many guys like that. Anyway, back to your evening - yeah, definitely doing something what is a mixture of romance and passion would be great. But I wouldnt go for anything like expensive lingerie and stockings and stuff like this. Especially if you are after fight, he might not be in the mood of enjoying "complicated stuff". Do it spontaneously, once you finish the dinner, you can open a bottle of wine, play some music, start to talk and you will see when is the right time to kiss him......etc
HoldOn Posted March 13, 2005 Posted March 13, 2005 Okay, only idea I would suggestion is leaving it alone. I agree. Men are for wooing. Women are to be wooed. Just my humble opinion. As they say in Men are from Mars and Women are from Venus... Men like to go to their cave when they are upset and women should let them. I know, as a woman, that you want to give him what you would like, but the truth is ..... What he wants is different from what you would like. What he probably wants is space to think about it, and realize that he misses you.
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