deleted him off FB, then he blocked me a week later? (Updated)

[changeofseasons]

I was seeing this guy for almost 2 months, things got really complicated and crazy, tried to break it off with him in person, but he was always "too busy." So i did what i had to do for my own mental stability and deleted him off of facebook. I'm sure he knew right off the bat because a few hours after i did he texted me out of no where (at the point in the relationship i was the one chasing; which i know, is not what the female should typically do, so it was weird that he would initiate a conversation.) But then after a week, he blocked me? I dont understand why he didnt off the bat, probably to get a reaction out of me (which unfortunately i gave into my emotions and contacted him)

 

So i possibly want to get back together with him, or just be friends, when i fix some things in my life and become healthier mentally and physically. But now since he blocked me im just totally wtfing the whole thing. Do you think its just temporary or he's really pissed at me? I believe in the Law of Attraction, so i do believe he will be back at some point, but i guess i just cant shake the reality of it now.

[Million.to.1]

he just one upped you.

 

you deleted him.. so he did one better and blocked you. whatever "better" means.

 

Sounds like a very immature relationship wrought with issues and isn't worth your attention. From your post, i would guess you are quite young.

 

You wanted to break-up with him and now it's done. Go NC.

 

... and law of attraction does not work the way you are saying. You should be focused on bringing the positive qualities you want in a mate/person in your life, not attracting back some guy who you were having issues with 2 months into dating.

[changeofseasons]

^ I agree, i think he wanted to feel like he had control over the situation as well

 

I'm 20, he's 30. Lost my virginity to him, so i think thats the main reason why i want him back. I've been in NC for about 3 weeks now, deleted his number, so theres no way for me to contact unless i realllllly wanted to but im just going to give him space and time. was mostly pressured by my mom to break up with him because i come from a very religious home, and my mom was going to kick me out if i were to still sleep with him. So half of the stress was from my own overthinking and the other half was from my mother. it was a terrible situation to be in at the moment so i just gave in.

[Million.to.1]

^ I agree, i think he wanted to feel like he had control over the situation as well

 

I'm 20, he's 30. Lost my virginity to him, so i think thats the main reason why i want him back. I've been in NC for about 3 weeks now, deleted his number, so theres no way for me to contact unless i realllllly wanted to but im just going to give him space and time. was mostly pressured by my mom to break up with him because i come from a very religious home, and my mom was going to kick me out if i were to still sleep with him. So half of the stress was from my own overthinking and the other half was from my mother. it was a terrible situation to be in at the moment so i just gave in.

 

Oh, that sucks. Tough situation.

 

If you are in a position that means you still live with a parent or parents who have strict views you don't agree with, then i suggest you take control yourself and move out. (If you want to have sex with guys who you've only been dating for a short time.)

 

No mother would really be into her virgin 20yr old dating a 30yr old unless he was an absolute awesome guy who she had met properly, sussed out, knew he cared deeply about her daughter etc, and even then would take some time. You understand? She has spent 20 years trying to instil values in you that took one 30yr old dude an fews weeks to undo.