VedderisBetter Posted October 29, 2014 Share Posted October 29, 2014 (edited) I found a girl I went to high school (class of 2004) with on match.com and decided to message her saying hi and that I believe we were in the same high school class and just asked her how life is treating her now. She responds 4 days later and apologizes and says she's still getting used to the site. She said she remembers me but isn't sure what teacher she had. I remembered what class we were both in. She also told me she has a terrible memory. She ended it by saying "I hope all is well." Does she seem interested based on the fact that she remembers me but not the class or teacher? We never talked in school. I was actually surprised she responded because I was quiet and didn't hang out with many people in high school and this girl is pretty and looks the exact same as she did in high school and was on the school dance team I believe. Edited October 29, 2014 by VedderisBetter Link to post Share on other sites
PegNosePete Posted October 29, 2014 Share Posted October 29, 2014 Well without more info it's pretty impossible to tell. "I remember you, you're the guy who farted all the time" "I remember you, you're the hot guy I always wanted to date but was always scared to ask" Why not ask her if she wants to meet up? Link to post Share on other sites
MissBee Posted October 29, 2014 Share Posted October 29, 2014 I found a girl I went to high school (class of 2004) with on match.com and decided to message her saying hi and that I believe we were in the same high school class and just asked her how life is treating her now. She responds 4 days later and apologizes and says she's still getting used to the site. She said she remembers me but isn't sure what teacher she had. I remembered what class we were both in. She also told me she has a terrible memory. She ended it by saying "I hope all is well." Does she seem interested based on the fact that she remembers me but not the class or teacher? We never talked in school. I was actually surprised she responded because I was quiet and didn't hang out with many people in high school and this girl is pretty and looks the exact same as she did in high school and was on the school dance team I believe. Remembering someone and being interested aren't related. I remember a lot of people, people I saw in passing and never spoke to, but if I saw them I'd remember their face. If I saw someone from my high school on a dating site and they messaged me, I'd probably remember their face especially if they told me we went to high school together. I'm good with faces, but like her may remember no other details. But me simply remembering them doesn't mean anything, you can't control who you remember, it's unrelated to romantic interest. None of what she said really seemed to indicate she likes you but simply that you told her you were from high school and she remembered you. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Ruby Slippers Posted October 29, 2014 Share Posted October 29, 2014 Keep talking to her and gauge her interest. If she seems interested, ask her out. If not, wish her the best and move on. Link to post Share on other sites
Redhead14 Posted October 29, 2014 Share Posted October 29, 2014 Keep talking to her and gauge her interest. If she seems interested, ask her out. If not, wish her the best and move on. Yep, it doesn't matter whether or not she remembers you. You are starting fresh here. It would be nice if you got together and had stories to share from those days. But, you don't know her any more than you did then. Link to post Share on other sites
preraph Posted October 29, 2014 Share Posted October 29, 2014 If you are now a big strong man where back then you were an unremarkable lad, then by all means show her some recent photos and talk a little about mutual friends until you can see if she seems at all flirty or not. Link to post Share on other sites
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