kilofoxtrot Posted October 29, 2014 Posted October 29, 2014 I'm dating this woman for 4 years now. I have a serious problem. During the day she is awesome! I love being around her and we never argue. But sometimes during nights she changes. She look like she is high or drunk. Then she gets very upset over anything you say or do. I have no idea where it coms from. For instance, my last day I had off work we spent most of the day at the mall. She was acting normal and she looked normal. Then around 1030 that night it just changed all of a sudden. I looked at her and like I said, it looked like she was high. She got upset with me over nothing. Anyone know why or how this happens? its weird and it scares me. I hope someone could help. I know she needs to see a doctor but I cant afford to take her and I told her mom (She knew she gets this way) but she refuses to do anything because she is embarrassed she is like this and not living like the way she wants her too. Hope you guys can help!
FitChick Posted October 29, 2014 Posted October 29, 2014 Maybe she has low blood sugar. Feed her a high protein snack like a piece of cheese or some almonds before that time and see if it helps. 2
Arieswoman Posted October 29, 2014 Posted October 29, 2014 kilofoxtrot, I am concerned that this has been going on for 4 years and neither you, her, nor her mother have addressed this. but she refuses to do anything because she is embarrassed she is like this I'm afraid that if she won't deal with this then you can't make her, and there isn't anything you can do. It seems that you only have two choices, 1. You put up with it 2. You end the relationship Sorry. 1
smackie9 Posted October 29, 2014 Posted October 29, 2014 Tell her to shut up and get frickin help. If you slam the hammer down, she will snap out of it and get some help. 1
beach Posted October 29, 2014 Posted October 29, 2014 Has she had a physical to determine if she has any issues? Have you ever seen her with any pills she could be taking? That could alter her with very little evidence. Start looking. Pay attention. Does she work? Does she keep a regular sleep pattern? 1
smackie9 Posted October 29, 2014 Posted October 29, 2014 Does this happen where she lives? If so it could be carbon monoxide poisoning. Get a CO detector. It could be an allergic reaction. Find out what she is consuming at night, like herbal remedy, birth control pill, gluten, vitamins, medication, etc.
Quiet Storm Posted October 29, 2014 Posted October 29, 2014 If she looks high, I'd suspect she was taking pills later in the day. I doubt she would ever admit it though, addicts will protect their drug of choice. Is she sneaky about other things? Addicts/ alcoholics often get in the habit of hiding/lying about other things, as well. There could be something physical wrong. If its blood sugar, you may be able to get an idea by changing food types & meal times to look for a cause & effect. Also, the brain needs oxygen to function properly and it gets it from our blood. My dad has COPD and often his blood oxygen level will fall later in the day, which can cause him to be irritable or say strange things. If her lungs are compromised in some way, the oxygen level in her blood could be low and affect her brain.
Brooke02 Posted October 29, 2014 Posted October 29, 2014 She's popping pain pills. If you should ransack her purse, bet you'd find them.
smackie9 Posted October 29, 2014 Posted October 29, 2014 I have had pain pills....they make you very happy from my experience.
smackie9 Posted October 29, 2014 Posted October 29, 2014 maybe she is taking happy pills during the day, then comes down at night....that would make her go angry crazy.
Brooke02 Posted October 29, 2014 Posted October 29, 2014 I have had pain pills....they make you very happy from my experience. She's getting upset because he's calling her out on it. "She looks High"
smackie9 Posted October 29, 2014 Posted October 29, 2014 If she gets upset about everything for no reason.....that's got alcoholic written all over it.
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