how do i make a move on her?

[heyitsmike]

Hey guys,

 

so i'm 23 and i met this girl (24) at a fancy party 2 weeks ago and got her phone number. she is Australian, a freelance model there, and has been in the US before but is new to my area and living on a work visa until August 2015. she just got off the plane 3 weeks ago and is staying in her own guesthouse on the same property as her rich aunt and uncle 8 minutes away from where i live in Stamford, ct. unfortunately for me she is moving into her own apartment in NYC Saturday which puts a little more distance between us.

 

anyways i asked this girl out for drinks last week and we had a lovely time. we kept our conversation going for over three hours and it seemed all very natural to talk with her. then when i drove her back to her place she kissed me on the lips and we made plans to grab dinner this Thursday (10/30).

 

its my first time "getting back up on the horse" since my ex broke up with me a few months ago, so i felt a tad of awkwardness and was hesitant at the end of the night when i dropped this new girl off and was deciding what to do, but luckily she relieved me with a kiss.

 

so now here's my dilemma:

considering she is moving to NYC which would be a train ride away for me (which might not be bad every once in a while) and that im seeing her one last time before she goes, how do i make a move on this girl? my ideal situation i guess would be to establish something a little more intimate with this girl before she leaves, and then either occasionally visit her in NYC for fun weekends/hooking up, or maybe even consider dating her down the road. either way it all starts with Thursday after dinner. part of me thinks i should make a bold move, or maybe even ask her when i drop her off "got a question for you: if i had made a move on you last week, what would you have thought?" (basically something to get the ball rolling)

 

any ideas or advice considering the situation? its been a while since i've been on the dating scene

[mapofyourhead]

Why don't you just go in for another kiss and take it from there?

[Assasda]

Man, Whatever you do. Please dont ask her that lame question. hahaha

Dont try to force it man. Just have fun with her. If she's having enough fun she'll feel the magnetism

[d0nnivain]

Do not ask her that Q.

 

Instead, kiss her hello. Have a lovely date. Try for a few more kisses during the date. As it's winding down, ask her if she'd like to come back to your place. She knows exactly what you are asking here. If she says yes, you are golden. If she declines, you are going to have to court her long distance & not have any established intimacy the 1st time you go visit her in NYC.