thunderboss Posted October 28, 2014 Posted October 28, 2014 met this girl who I've known for a month or so. she sent me a text saying that she doesn't know if she's getting the wrong vibe she thinks I'm great and enjoys me as a friend but she only but that she isn't interested. Said she just wanted to be clear just in case. I haven't responded yet. Not even sure how to respond.
slizl Posted October 28, 2014 Posted October 28, 2014 I guess it depends on what your intentions are. If you are interested in her as more than a friend, I would simply text back, "I appreciate your honesty and I would like to remain friends." After that I would go no contact whether or not you wanted to reamin friends or not. 1
Author thunderboss Posted October 28, 2014 Author Posted October 28, 2014 I wouldn't mind being friends with her. We hang out in a group sometimes.
Author thunderboss Posted October 28, 2014 Author Posted October 28, 2014 (edited) should I even bother texting back? should I just tell her she got the wrong vibe and throw her off so she doesn't think I did like her. Edited October 28, 2014 by thunderboss
Jiggs Posted October 28, 2014 Posted October 28, 2014 Seems like you really like this girl. I recommend you continue talking to her and build a relationship but make sure you don't fall into the "friend zone." Let her know that you like her but don't let it seem like you're in a rush to make her your girlfriend. If you come across as desperate you will turn her off. Demonstrate that you're a man with high social value and she will start to see you differently.
Assasda Posted October 29, 2014 Posted October 29, 2014 I think you'll have a better outcome if you dont respond
Mentos Posted October 29, 2014 Posted October 29, 2014 Seems like you really like this girl. I recommend you continue talking to her and build a relationship but make sure you don't fall into the "friend zone." Let her know that you like her but don't let it seem like you're in a rush to make her your girlfriend. If you come across as desperate you will turn her off. Demonstrate that you're a man with high social value and she will start to see you differently. I agree with Jiggs. You definitely don't want to fall into the friend zone, since it seems like you don't want to completely be just friends.
mapofyourhead Posted October 29, 2014 Posted October 29, 2014 If you're absolutely fine with just being friends, then tell her you're not interested either, or something to that effect, and go on being friends. If you want more, don't lie about wanting to be friends and continue hanging around her hoping she'll eventually change her mind and become interested, then complain about being relegated to the "friend zone" when you were never out of it! Just be honest and thank her for her honesty as well. Or I suppose you could always lie and stop hanging out with her or find someone else to be interested in.
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