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Have you ever begged your ex to come back?

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Hello,

 

I want to know:

1. Have you ever begged your ex to come back when he/she dumped you? If so, for how long?

2. Your story of how did you move on?

 

My story (if you are interested):

I begged my ex bf for a year. Yes, ONE FREAKING YEAR! We dated for 1.5 years, knew each others for 6 years. He was my first, our relationship was a secret, none of my friends know (this was my request). I didn't know how relationship works. I thought that if I keep begging, it means that I still care and believe in us. I basically fell into those TV shows trick that the ex will come back if you keep trying. Well, every time I text him, he would be so nice to me. But one time he said that "I have moved on, I am happy (without you)". Well, that was still not enough for me to let go.

 

Anyway, I let go when I started online dating. I got so many likes from guys. I got the attention I wanted, went on couple dates. I started dating one guy for a month, he broke up with me for personal reason. i guess I finally feel that someone wants me. Before, I felt like the end of the world, thank goodness I wasn't suicidal. Anyway, but yeah, so glad I moved on.

And I love the song Over You - Daughtry. One of the lines in the song i love is: "when you slammed the front door shut,

A lot of others opened up". To my ex (insert middle finger). So happy now! :)

 

P.S. I didn't use my second guy, I told him the whole story and he was ok with it.

 

FYI-I am 25.

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I wish to hear how long did people begged, but no1 answered. So how do I delete this post?

LifeNomad Established Member

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people beg all the time, I did for 3.5 months more or less, the begging is over now, and I honestly am soo freakin glad she didn't take me back.

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I know the feeling, but begging never works.

 

My bf and I were on one of many "breaks" this one lasting about 6 months. I had begged him to come back for about 3 months with no results. Then I met a new guy. The sex was great, but I couldn't stop thinking about my ex. What if he comes back? What if this, what if that.

 

I decided to cut the cord with my ex. I went to him and told him that I was leaving because I was dating someone new. Boy, did that work. He turned up the heat big time and I ended up leaving the new guy.

 

Me and bf stayed together for about 2 years after that, then he dumped me! Clear out the blue he dumped me! This was the worst day of my life. I thought my world was coming to an end. This time I didn't beg, but I did things to get his attention--that didn't work.

 

Long story short, 5 years later I am so happy he left! He wasn't the one. I was in love with the idea of being in love. I was in love with his perceived potential not who he really was. He did me the biggest favor by walking out on me.

 

Somehow, he knew that he wasn't good enough for me, but I was still trying to hang on.

 

The moral of the story is...STOP BEGGING and let him GO! If you have to beg for his love and affection he doesn't really love you.

 

~Ms. Free

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