Gaeta Posted October 28, 2014 Posted October 28, 2014 Sorry No, that was a HUGE mistake on my part. I actually told her I'd contact her mid-week and tell her when it'd be good for me. That was our 'agreement.' Pretty bad, huh? Yep! it is bad lol Ok so contact her mid-week and offer her a very specific date and time. If she is busy on that specific night ask her when is a good time for her. If she replies anything like 'I will let you know' that is a brush off. I am SO standing by this thread for an update
WhatIsLove2014 Posted October 28, 2014 Posted October 28, 2014 Yep! it is bad lol Ok so contact her mid-week and offer her a very specific date and time. If she is busy on that specific night ask her when is a good time for her. If she replies anything like 'I will let you know' that is a brush off. I am SO standing by this thread for an update I second that Please please do yourself a favor....CALL HER...DONT TEXT HER! 3
Redhead14 Posted October 28, 2014 Posted October 28, 2014 I second that Please please do yourself a favor....CALL HER...DONT TEXT HER! Yes, I agree with this wholeheartedly. If you are hellbent on seeing her, call her once and for all. You will know by her tone, etc. what's she's thinking/doing, etc. And, even if she accepts just to be nice because she doesn't know how to be mature and direct, be prepared for her to fall off the face of the earth. 2
Author GuskeGee Posted October 28, 2014 Author Posted October 28, 2014 OMG IS THIS THE SAME GIRL WHO YOU FOUND OUT WAS DATING ANOTHER GUY WHILE YOU WERE AWAY?? If this is the same girl...after all this time she has not been out with you...she is NOT interested...she's going out with the other guy. Say bye bye...it's not gonna happen. Yup, you have a great memory That said, I found out she met that other guy weeks before me, they're still not exclusive and weeks after she met him, she was still flirting and gave her number to me. That doesn't exactly shout "I'm sooooo interested in this guy" either, so I'm not worried about him. If she was incredibly attracted to him, she wouldn't have played with other guys
Author GuskeGee Posted October 28, 2014 Author Posted October 28, 2014 Yep! it is bad lol Ok so contact her mid-week and offer her a very specific date and time. If she is busy on that specific night ask her when is a good time for her. If she replies anything like 'I will let you know' that is a brush off. I am SO standing by this thread for an update LOL this thread is giving me six-hundred different approaches. I didn't give her a specific time the first time around, she responded with a "busy, but what about next weekend? I have time then" message to which I replied I'd contact her mid-week. Then I contacted her Sunday with an annoying "how are you?" text to which she didn't reply Now I'm about to double-text her tomorrow... or what?
WhatIsLove2014 Posted October 28, 2014 Posted October 28, 2014 Yup, you have a great memory That said, I found out she met that other guy weeks before me, they're still not exclusive and weeks after she met him, she was still flirting and gave her number to me. That doesn't exactly shout "I'm sooooo interested in this guy" either, so I'm not worried about him. If she was incredibly attracted to him, she wouldn't have played with other guys But you also have to use that against you, she is probably not emotionally invested in anyone so you shouldn't get so wrapped up in her. But definitely call her, give it a try, if she flakes, cut ties and move on.
Author GuskeGee Posted October 28, 2014 Author Posted October 28, 2014 But you also have to use that against you, she is probably not emotionally invested in anyone so you shouldn't get so wrapped up in her. But definitely call her, give it a try, if she flakes, cut ties and move on. Yeah, I think calling her is a better idea! I don't know if waiting until Friday is a good idea, since I said I'd contact her mid-week. However, maybe it would reinforce a text from her? Two choices really.
Gaeta Posted October 28, 2014 Posted October 28, 2014 I think you have to stand by what you said. You said you would contact her mid-week to make plans so tomorrow is mid-week. As for the other guy, I personally think he is one step ahead of you. If she has been seeing him for a few weeks then she has an interest in him and that is why she is giving you the run around. I don't know how the rest of the world does this but if I am not interested in someone I move on after 2-3 dates. By now him and her have a sense of familiarity that you don't have with her. She will be comparing you to him when you meet. Also, if she were interested in you she would have answered your message from Sunday. I would never ever leave a message unattended if I like the guy. So, I hate being negative but my bet is she won't pick up when you call tomorrow. She is giving you a fade away. I base that on the fact she never answered your last message. 1
cdt76 Posted October 28, 2014 Posted October 28, 2014 Holy crap. Dude. She flaked already or she isn't interested or she has another dude or what the hell ever. Move on. Let it go. There are others that will show more interest.
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