juanito14 Posted October 28, 2014 Posted October 28, 2014 Earlier tonight I tried to go surprise my girlfriend by putting a note on her car so that when she woke up tomorrow morning she would see it. She was supposed to be driving back home from school and I thought she would be home. Her car wasn't there and we were still texting each other so I wrote 'just wanted to make sure you got home safe' which I meant but also wanted to see where she was(we were already talking about her driving home in the texts). She ended up getting home and I brought up the situation and she was just helping her drunk brother get home safely. I told her about it and she said for next time just to ask her about it straight up since she has nothing to hide from me. I told her I didnt want to come off like I was interrogating her since I do trust her, and later on told her that I did also mean that I wanted her to get home safe. She said that she wasnt mad at me but didnt like that I did that. And then proceeded to tell me that now I know she'll always tell me if I ask no matter what it is. I told her I understood where she was coming from and that it won't happen again. then she said I love you and that she has to go to bed since she has to wake up at 530 tomorrow morning. I didnt really have time to tell her that I hope this didnt effect her trust in me, and that I'll still tell her I hope she gets home safe later on, because I do care about that. Am I just overreacting right now? I don't like feeling like she may not be able to trust me or that it may affect her view of me.
Toodaloo Posted October 28, 2014 Posted October 28, 2014 Your over reacting... Let it go... Your making yourself seem like a crazed stalker. Sweet thing to do but it didn't go right. Let it go.
ExpatInItaly Posted October 28, 2014 Posted October 28, 2014 Leave it alone now. She may feel you don't trust her as much, but that's a consequence of handling it the way you did. Don't do it again, and I am sure she'll move past it too.
d0nnivain Posted October 28, 2014 Posted October 28, 2014 Why all the subterfuge? If you just said I stopped by to surprise you but got worried when you weren't here, things would have been a lot less dramatic. 1
Jules Dash Posted October 29, 2014 Posted October 29, 2014 I don't know about the note on the car to surprise your significant other when they wake up and get in their car. It just seems stalkerish and probably not worth the possible brownie points you are trying to go for.
Assasda Posted October 29, 2014 Posted October 29, 2014 The only mistake you made was apologizing. Keep your man pants on, and be confident
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