tv_guy Posted March 13, 2005 Posted March 13, 2005 So here is my situation concerning my breakup. I started dating this girl I work with for a few months. We had know each ohter through work but really didn't become friends or anything for about a year. She had left the company to purse another career path but would still come and work now and then. Every now and then my roomate and I (who I also work with) would plan outings for everyone at work and our friends. We invited her afew times since we knew her to be a fun girl and she is hot. I knew she was pretty but never really thought of asking her out. So for a few weekends in a row she was hanging out with me and my friends. Eventually there stared to be feelings between us and I could just feel she liked me. So one night she asks me out for a drink. I was excited and a little shocked but said yes. She said she asked me out because she knew I was one of those hard to find nice guys who knows how to treat a girl. I did a lot of things for her showing her she made the right choice. So we started dating and things got serious quickly. I love you was said and I really feel I did love her and still do. But then things changed. We had a fight over something small and things started to change from then on. She went away for a beauty pagent and when she came back after loosing she was hurt. I tried to be the comferting boyfriend but I was pushed away. So I gave her space but after awhile and many sweet things to make her happy I was not getting any love back. We started to fight more and more. Her affection dissapeared and she just didnt want to hang out anymore. Going from being together almost daily to maybe once a week was a shock to say the least. So after fighting to many times I had to break it off I just wasn't happy and I had enough. It was hard to do of course but not as hard as getting over her. After the break up I didn't talk to her for a couple weeks but for the past week and next week we have to work together. It has been civil and I haven't been an ass but there are still looks and things back and for that make me nutz. I wish it was just out of sight out of mind like I usually do but atleast for the next week she is right there with me. Anyone have any insights into helping me heal my broken heart???? Just writting this out has helped ease my heartbreak but ahas anyone else been in this situation. I am also looking for feedback if anyone else thinks its not cool for my buddies to still keep in contact with her. Is it breaking guy code or just immature on mine and some friends part to tell one friend he has to stop talking to her. Thanks to all who reply.
Pocky Posted March 13, 2005 Posted March 13, 2005 I am also looking for feedback if anyone else thinks its not cool for my buddies to still keep in contact with her. Is it breaking guy code or just immature on mine and some friends part to tell one friend he has to stop talking to her. I don't see why your buddy isn't allowed to be friends with her still. As long as your buddy doesn't bring her around while you're still overcoming the break-up, I don't think you have a right to expect your friend to stop talking to her.
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