frozengirl Posted October 28, 2014 Posted October 28, 2014 I have always blocked my ex's from contacting me after a relationship has ended or blocked them and their new partners because they would always start something with me. But lately I've been thinking of unblocking some other ex's I've kept on lock down and letting them loose but what if they start something? What would you do or have you done this before?
Noproblem Posted October 28, 2014 Posted October 28, 2014 I have always blocked my ex's from contacting me after a relationship has ended or blocked them and their new partners because they would always start something with me. But lately I've been thinking of unblocking some other ex's I've kept on lock down and letting them loose but what if they start something? What would you do or have you done this before? why would you want to unblock them now? what have changed? DO you want them to make a move? 1
CryForNoOne Posted October 28, 2014 Posted October 28, 2014 I have always blocked my ex's from contacting me after a relationship has ended or blocked them and their new partners because they would always start something with me. But lately I've been thinking of unblocking some other ex's I've kept on lock down and letting them loose but what if they start something? What would you do or have you done this before? I've been in many relationships over the years and have NEVER blocked or been blocked by exes. Maybe you should ask yourself why every relationship ends with "lockdowns" with you AND their new partners? Sounds like some Jerry Springer stuff is going on...
Author frozengirl Posted October 28, 2014 Author Posted October 28, 2014 I don't want to communicate with them just remove them from my blocked list thats all. But the reason their new partners contact me is because they know I am their ex so they just want to start stuff and hurt me, so I would block them. 1
CryForNoOne Posted October 28, 2014 Posted October 28, 2014 I don't want to communicate with them just remove them from my blocked list thats all. But the reason their new partners contact me is because they know I am their ex so they just want to start stuff and hurt me, so I would block them. Well then don't overthink this. If you would be friends without the sex-romance part, unblock. If not, leave blocked and move on... 1
somedude81 Posted October 28, 2014 Posted October 28, 2014 What is the point of removing them from your blocked list? Block and forget.
tpham18nm Posted October 28, 2014 Posted October 28, 2014 I don't want to communicate with them just remove them from my blocked list thats all. But the reason their new partners contact me is because they know I am their ex so they just want to start stuff and hurt me, so I would block them. Why would new partners contact you just because you are an ex?? That is do weird...? Why would someone go out of there way to do that, seems odd and does not mage sense.
IronZ Posted October 28, 2014 Posted October 28, 2014 Why would new partners contact you just because you are an ex?? That is do weird...? Why would someone go out of there way to do that, seems odd and does not mage sense. Not to mention OP made it seem like it's a regular occurrence. Like it's happened on more than one occasion with more than one ex. She keeps talking about how they mess with her. Makes me think OP is not all that innocent. Maybe she finds trouble because she goes looking for it. As far as this thread goes, I think there's no point in unblocking someone you didn't wish to speak to before. Nothing changed. Unless you all of a sudden want to speak to them, leave them blocked.
Author frozengirl Posted October 28, 2014 Author Posted October 28, 2014 Then I will keep them blocked. 1
ExpatInItaly Posted October 28, 2014 Posted October 28, 2014 I don't buy that you just want to remove them from your blocked list. If that's truly the case, delete/unfriend them. And if exs' new partners have a habit of contacting you and "starting something", you do need to look at your role in that. In all my years of dating, not once has an ex-boyfriend's new girl contacted me. I think there's quite a bit more to this that you're leaving out.
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