Dork Vader Posted October 28, 2014 Posted October 28, 2014 There was a woman I was talking too. I have not heard from her in days and I have not attempted to contact her. I've mostly been dealing with trying to get into a rehab. Anyways should I even bother emailing her and letting her know what is going on? I have a huge interest in her for a lot of reasons. But I need to get sober before I try and date. Opinions?
CarrieT Posted October 28, 2014 Posted October 28, 2014 Don't bother. Just wait until you are back and clean and then see who is out there for you... 2
oberkeat Posted October 28, 2014 Posted October 28, 2014 Don't bring her into it. If I was just getting to know someone, I wouldn't want them to dump their personal crises on me just yet. In any case, you said it yourself: right now, your top priority is getting yourself straightened out, not worrying about some girl.
ExpatInItaly Posted October 28, 2014 Posted October 28, 2014 No. Go and focus on you and healing. If she's someone you're only in casual contact with, it's not exactly the best idea to include her in this.
sagamore Posted October 28, 2014 Posted October 28, 2014 No. She hasn't been in your life long enough to require that kind of disclosure. But feel free to tell US! What a great step you're taking for yourself. Rock on, DV
Divasu Posted October 28, 2014 Posted October 28, 2014 That's fairly personal. If you're close enough with her where you think she'll understand, I don't see the harm in it. Otherwise, no, keep it to yourself and focus on you and getting better. I wish you well.
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