agnf666 Posted March 12, 2005 Posted March 12, 2005 This has been a horrible day. I know that I broke up with my ex a while ago. on March 12, 2004 we decided to be a couple. I can't not remember it. I have been reading Cosmo and every males name seems to be the same as my ex's. His favortie song is on the radio right now. I think that it is just a wierd that wll of this is happening. I haven't talk to him in months, but he said we would be friends and hang out. I can't forget him and I don't know why?
purple21 Posted March 13, 2005 Posted March 13, 2005 I'm sorry you are feeling that way - i think when you have a close connection to someone it will take awhile to heal completely - the pain will pop up when you least expect it. Did you break up last March - if so since the date is so close to being a year past that is probably why a lot of feelings are coming back - they will fade again. Me and my ex broke up in May - it was a long time coming but it still hurts sometimes when you get some rememberances of how times use to be especially if you were with someone for awhile or had a close connection - it's totally understandable. The only advice I have is to keep on posting on LS about it and let us help you out, talk to friends if you want. Let the feelings come get upset and cry if you need to and let them go. I think it helps you deal to get the feelings out. Don't beat yourself up if it happens from time to time. Tomorrow or even later you will probably feel totally later - i know you will - have been there. Just keep writing to us when you need to - we are there for you. Hugs
Author agnf666 Posted March 13, 2005 Author Posted March 13, 2005 We dated from March to june of 2004. Why I have a strong connection to him was because I use to go to karate when I was little. Then he stopped going to the classes, then I moved away. So, my best friends wanted me to go on a date with this guy (my ex). She told me his name and where he was from . I was like I think I know him. What is really wierd is that I knew him before I knew my best friend. So, I said I would go and sure enough it was him . So, we lived about and hour away from each other. So, it was good in the begining but then he got tired of coming to my house because I couldn't drive so we mutually broke up. I have been trying to get over him. I want to date this guy ?I work with but I don't feel as good of a connection that I feel with my ex. People tell me to forget about him and we didn't date all that long to even have any feelings about each other. March of this year would have been a year we would have ben together. I that night like yesterday, but it was so long ago. I can't forget it. I'm doin the best that I can
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