Moving on but losing sense of time and it's passing?

[heartbroken1357]

Hi all, I'm starting to come to terms with my breakup, and am starting to feel better,

I finally mustered the ability to block my ex out on all social media and delete her number and it's already helping, we didn't end on a bad note, she just wasn't commited, I want to be friends with her but for now I think I need space to remove those feelings of affection I have for her, has anyone here gained relief from in time seeing an ex in a friendly manner, rather then not at all?*

 

The issue I have now is days are merging and blurring into each other, we've been split 3 weeks and I haven't spent a night with her in a month, yet it feels like yesterday I saw her and we spoke and she lay here next to me, I've lost a month just like that, the week before the split we went out for a meal and to me when I look into that memory it felt like a week ago at most..

 

is this normal during a breakup any tips of dealing with this, it's making me feel awful

 

Thanks, J

 

Share

 

**

[preraph]

Time of mourning is a big blur. Be glad you are not seeing her. I have been in situations where it was not possible to not see the person. It will just take time. You must try to be positive at least that she didn't waste any more of your time, though, because at the end of it when feelings have dissipated and you're on to other relationships, that lost time is what you will most regret. Don't reconnect at all. It will only keep you from being able to maintain other relationships. Three weeks isn't that long. But it is time you made yourself, even though you don't feel like it, call up a friend or two and go out and do something fun. The busier you stay now, the less you'll dwell on this. If you don't pick up life again, it's easy to get mired on only thinking about it and that's not healthy at all. So you get busy and try not to spend your time with the friends just talking about her and the breakup. They ask how you are, be honest but brief or you'll run them off because not many are down for the maudlin buddy. Go fake having fun until you're actually having fun again. Best of luck.