Beagle1 Posted October 27, 2014 Posted October 27, 2014 I have been seeing a lady for roughly 4 months. I really like her company. She has an irregular schedule due to work and has a lot of work related commitments. We text back and forth during the week and very little on the weekend. Basically most of our dates have been during the week because she has plans on the weekend. She works in the city. Occasionally, I will go to the city on Friday evenings and when I do I send her a text. She always responds and she, along with her friends, meets me. I had to go out of town for 5 days, but before leaving I asked her to an event on a Sunday. She agreed to go. After my return, I took an extra day off asked her to lunch. She was enthusiastic about having lunch and would let me know when she could take lunch. We never went- told me she was mistakenly texting her girlfriend and thought it was me. Then she told me she was going to crash Friday, talked into a party Saturday and had a work event on Sunday. Is she jerking me around?
Chasin Posted October 27, 2014 Posted October 27, 2014 I almost feel like she is jerking you around.. Maybe just keeping you as a casual guy? She seems like she's more focused on her friends and work than a guy. Texting her friend on accident thinking it was you just seems weird and irrelevant. 1
GemmaUK Posted October 27, 2014 Posted October 27, 2014 Does she live up in the city during the week? Maybe she is married? I wouldn't waste time, go with your instinct.
Author Beagle1 Posted October 27, 2014 Author Posted October 27, 2014 No she live close to me. I know she is not married
bubbletea Posted October 27, 2014 Posted October 27, 2014 Well she isn't respecting you or your time, and she isn't treating you very well or making much of an effort. That should say enough right there.
Assasda Posted October 28, 2014 Posted October 28, 2014 You shouldnt care if she's jerking you around or not. She does not belong to you. See other women, She's not the only one on the planet, and by no means is she obligated to you
Author Beagle1 Posted October 28, 2014 Author Posted October 28, 2014 Thanks for your thoughts. Now I am really confused. She just asked me out Saturday
IronZ Posted October 28, 2014 Posted October 28, 2014 She always meets you with her friends? Have you two ever been on a 1on1 date? It sounds like she's got too many other priorities than you my friend. 1
Author Beagle1 Posted October 28, 2014 Author Posted October 28, 2014 We meet one on one during our weeknight dates. Her friends are there when and if I go into city on fridays
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