jinjin Posted March 12, 2005 Posted March 12, 2005 I've been dating Phil for 1.5 years. He is 35 never married, no kids. I'm divorced (for 17 years) raised a child, I'm 37. I run my own business. Pretty together. I'm finanically together. I'm beginning to discover things @ Phil that I'm finding hard to tolerate. He's going no where fast. Seems to have no real drive about anything except sports. Mens basketball, mens football, mens baseball (no college). He hates women's sports. We met @ church. He comes from a nice family. Successful dad in construction. He works for his dad. He is babied too death by his mom. I mean, Santa still comes to see him at his parents house, stocking and all. Like he is 10 or something. When we started dating he had been on a 'diet' having lost about 60 pounds. He walked everyday. We walked together some. Then something happened. He no longer walked -- no longer wanted me to walk with him. Started eating. Like really eating. Eating now seems to be the only thing on his mind. He has packed on the 60 he had lost plus. This is a topic he won't discuss. ?? You know how some women get ticked when out to eat with significant other . . . might catch him looking at other women's butts, etc. Well this guy watches plates of food pass by the table, salivating and taxing as to whether or not he made the right menu choice. ??? I'm more health cautious. Try to make healthy choices, etc. The more I'm writing, the more I'm convincing myself to ditch him. He goes for a couple of days at a time without contact with me. Then just acts as though no time nor space had lasped.
Pocky Posted March 12, 2005 Posted March 12, 2005 He is babied too death by his mom. I mean, Santa still comes to see him at his parents house, stocking and all. Like he is 10 or something. Hey! Santa still comes at my mom's house, too. Stocking filled for my brother, my sister-in-law, my husband, my dad, the dog, and me! Don't hate the Santa Mom. The more I'm writing, the more I'm convincing myself to ditch him. Well you don't seem to respect him or like him so why are you dating him? He goes for a couple of days at a time without contact with me. Then just acts as though no time nor space had lasped. Maybe he feels the same about you as you feel about him? Sounds like you may not be good for each other. Your post comes of as though you find him repugnant. Heh. I can only imagine how you feel about sex with him. Maybe you're right and it's time to move on.
alicia24 Posted March 12, 2005 Posted March 12, 2005 Your mans behaviors seem to be that of a depressed person. Has he ever suffered from depression. I would look into that.
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