wineflower Posted October 27, 2014 Posted October 27, 2014 My ex (the dumper) just emailed me, out of the blue, after 3 months of NC. The subject reads "Hey :)" and the only thing in the email is an attachment of some screenshot she took of conversations I had with another girl while we were dating (my ex suspected me of cheating with her, but it never happened...long story short it's why she dumped me after 2.5 years). Do I reply to this? I mean, we're over... I don't understand why she sent this at all.
Poppyolive Posted October 27, 2014 Posted October 27, 2014 She's hurting, her egos hurting. You were supposed to chase and fight for her. My advise ignore & delete. You are only opening up a can of worms. My ex, dumper, continuously messaged me, for at least 4 months after. Don't go down that road. It's over. 1
CC12 Posted October 27, 2014 Posted October 27, 2014 Do I reply to this? No. Don't give it another thought. She seems to be trying to get a reaction out of you so don't give her one. 1
Arieswoman Posted October 27, 2014 Posted October 27, 2014 Just block her and don't feed her ego by replying. 1
Author wineflower Posted October 27, 2014 Author Posted October 27, 2014 Thanks for the feedback. I did chase after her right after the breakup and apologized for anything I had done to hurt her. She got mad and told me to stay away from her, which I did. I'll ignore it, I just think it's weird she's lashing out at me as the dumper. The breakup was her choice. 1
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